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Whatever happened to just introducing yourself first.

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Yes.

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lost.. Well to me a women touching me or getting flirty with my is offensive to me. In my mind she should have asked if I was bi or straight before "making a move" on me-- which I take as rude behavior. So, if the female wants to get in a pissing match with me b/c I respond in a manner in which she feels is rude--- bring it on. Remember, my Mexican blood would be all over that.

Frankly, I do not accept this behavior from a guy and just because it comes from a women is not exception. Lets face it anyone in the swing world knows everyone is not bi, even if there is a high portion who are, they still need to ask.

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I'm polite and just tell them sorry I'm straight IF given the opportunity.

I do however tend to get a bit sharp when while I'm playing with my man all of a sudden some woman just starts sucking on my nipple. That is a good way to get your hair yanked so I can be sure I have your attention when I say it.

Hmmmm come to think of it haven't had any problems with any of the bi ladies at the club since that day :-)

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why not just say "thanks for thinking of me like that, but i'm straight"?

Seems that would be a better option than wearing a sticker.

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I never flirt with a woman unless she initiates it first. Yeah call me shy :/

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I think that because the vast majority of women are bisexual it is assumed that you are as well. I don't know, if I were to be flirtatious with a woman and she snapped at me vs. smiling and saying no thank you it would probably provoke me to get snappy with her in return. You are right though, a man would never think to put his hands on a woman without being invited to do so first.

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Well I guess if a women just came up to me and asked if I was interested I would be fine with it. But, that is not the typical way I am approached by women. They usually are trying to cop a feel or get flirty with me -- oh please. So, my response is not polite. It is to the point - get your hands off me-now.

But in my mind when I go to swinger clubs I do not expect women to touch me or to approach me. It is my opinion the swing clubs are meant for all sexual preferences so no one should assume the women attending are bi or straight. Whatever happened to asking before touching??

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It has never been an issue that really concerned me....although I admit to being much more "wavy" than the average straight woman. But even before I enjoyed female touch it did not really bother me....a gentle "no thank you" have always sufficed. Just a few months ago a lady asked me to play, I said no thank you and she found another beautiful woman to play with...problem solved!!

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More times than I can count-- how annoying. It is one thing to know men are going to be trying to get my attention but the women too. -- ugh

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