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Ok this is going to come off weird but to my friends that know me you already know i'm a big of an odd duck.

I really don't care for FMF. The center of attention doesn't fit my personality well. I can't just relax and enjoy, because i have a need to take care of both of them.

Like i said i'm weird. I prefer one on one.

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sorry for the misspelled words..

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I love MFM!!! I dont like playing with married men giving a pass. I have that their wives can get possessive. It is okay if they play well they are playing but when they are done playing with the female and see there hubby receiving pleasure watch out---run..lol Or the opposite happens she wants to join but of course only is she can try to convert me and then things get uncomfortable. I wonder if it was her way to stop the play with her hubby. ..hmmm

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Listening to you girls talk about being the center of attention between two men is really interesting to me. It actually makes me very nervous to be the center of attention and I try my best to NOT be. It's unnerving. I don't think it has to do with being bi, but I just don't like things focused on me. Consequently, MFM is not really that appealing. I know that has to sound totally foreign to you but it gives me the heebie jeebies. I like to be on the cusp in the play and NOT the center of attention. Maybe its a control issue? I don't know. If a guy I'm playing with gives me too much "dedicated" attention it sends me in the opposite direction... I'm scrambling to get out of there. I like superficial fluff directed towards me...

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There's definitely nothing yummier than 2 men to focus my attention on! All those lovely strong hands...mmmm!

My husband is allowed to play by himself at clubs, but he's not allowed to leave me high and dry at home ;) lol

Of course, I'm such a lucky little bird to have a man who's into the lifestyle because it pleases ME so much...which is what gets him so hot... gotta love it ;)

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Here I yam sexyFunluv... 8)

Simba we have such an extremely trusting relationship that we are both allowed to play alone if we wish to. I Get excited watching her but she gets excited when I tell her about it so maybe we really are not alone?

I do like bing a rare bird though...

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Well in that case, those couples have the understanding that neither can play with the opposite sex alone. A lot of straight couples have that guideline. It's not unusual. It's more unusual to find a husband that can play alone....THAT is unusual.

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Simbaxx.. I thought that would be it too, except there's a steady group of husbands who just hang out at a table by the pool table while all the ladies are in the "Back rooms".

*shrug* i can't figure it out. I know my husband and I are far more open than most people, but it is frustrating on my end! hehe

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"The problem I've been running into at clubs is that the hubby then tells me "but i'm not allowed to play alone". "

The majority of couples play together (bi or st8). You will find some that play separate under certain conditions, but it doesn't happen that often. It isn't a bi thing it's a couple thing. When I'm playing with a female my husband wants to watch us. So, that could be another factor in that bi female's husbands enjoy that aspect. Mr. Sim has only gone off on his own twice in 4 years during a party and played apart from me. He doesn't really enjoy it but is "allowed" if he really wants it. He says he prefers to watch me and that acts as a real stimulus for things later to come that night.

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I have a question that hasn't been explored yet... I'm definitely straight, no question about it. I've tried just about everything and yep, i'm straight. SO, I LOVE it when the bi fems go play together, because that leaves all the hubbies for me to enjoy! The problem I've been running into at clubs is that the hubby then tells me "but i'm not allowed to play alone". So is this a normal boundary with bi-wives and straight hubbies? I've never come across a couple who WASN'T accustomed to this boundary.

It's definitely frustrating for me at clubs because my husband and I love MFM but don't ever seem to get them, even when the bi-wives are all off together! ~liebe

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