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TOPIC: Picking up on Men or Women for wife at a regular club
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Has any couple tried to pickup on Men , Women or Couples at a regular club ? would like to know how you do it

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Heehee be careful with vanillas and doing that. I know men and women (vanilla) who flip out if someone looks in their mate's direction. If you do that with the wrong people it will be something out of Days of our Lives. Especially women, vanilla women tend to be ummmm, quite territorial lol.


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We used to like to do this when we lived up North. It was NOT easy, but it was a lot of fun. One night we were in a bar/restaurant. A guy who had hit on her before came up and asked her who her friend was. She said my husband. An hour later we were all in our bed and had a great time. he joined us regularly for a couple of years.

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I suppose it's all in the approach...some approaches might spook the guys, and some might draw them in. Something to think about.

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We've had great luck meeting others in regular vanilla clubs, especially when it comes to single women. I can't say for certain "what" it is, other than we're both a little extroverted and tend to be up on our feet dancing,playing pool or shooting darts,talking with people we don't know,and in general just having a blast. Maybe it's just that our actions make us appear to be a real fun loving couple and that puts people at ease around us, or perhaps just being outgoing and meeting lots of strangers boosts the odds a little. It's always started with a little chatting & flirting, then before long we're in a 3 way bump n grind on the dance floor. Once you've progressed to that point, the signals are pretty hard to miss. Cupping and rubbing are usually a good sign,lol ;o)

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I've seen this happen. The wife is a stripper, and the hubby is gay, they pick up on guys at a coast guard station night club. The bouncers told me they're there every weekend and pick up a different guy each day.

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No, I'm honestly too shy lol. I know I could because every time we go to a vanilla bar I know I could lol...but I don't have the balls to walk up to someone vanilla I think and say do ya wanna take me home LOL. Shell


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Has any couple tried to pickup on Men , Women or Couples at a regular club ? would like to know how you do it

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TOPIC: Picking up on Men or Women for wife at a regular club