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TOPIC: Military_and_Swinging
Created by: JackDarlene
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We spent over twenty years in the military. During that time we crossed paths with several cpls who made me wonder. I know there are constraints in the military life that aren't present in the civilian life. However, I'm curious whether any SLS people can shed any light on swinging in the military? Comments, anyone?

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We were fairly certain there were at least a few swingers on the fringes of our work-social group in the Army at our last duty station in NC though we were never approached. And when we were stationed in Germany Mr Vistas CO tried several times to get us to join he and his wife at a nude spa, which over there wasn't unheard of per say but more the way the continual invitations were presented made us aware it wasn't just for the waters. We too are now retired and exploring it. The Army is getting rid of people left and right currently to cut costs; would have been too risky before.

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In 1977, when I was in the military my wife and I participated in a "wife swapping" group. There was military and civilians, both in the group. Rank was mostly low level Sgts. But there was a 2nd lt. And a captain. There were various civilian jobs. We usually meet at a group members home off post. Everyone was egual. .

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We started in the lifestyle shortly after I retired. We started our new lives and discovered a whole new adventure in the lifestyle. Honestly didn't know about the lifestyle at all while in. But then again I was gone so much during the previous 10 years it was hard enough to stay connected with just my wife let alone anything else...

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I didn't swing in the military. I know people that did. Hope that helps you out some.

Chandler AZ
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The closest we ever came to swinging with another military couple while I was in the military was my g/f and another guy's wife making out while we were at the Marine Corps Ball. We were at a hotel and took it back to our room. The girls made out and his wife went down on mine. She was "out of service" so my g/f couldn't reciprocate. That's as far as it went.

Other than that, I never even suspected any swinger groups in the military during my 17 yrs. And even if I did, I certainly wouldn't have joined in. I preferred to keep our LS activities as far away from the military as possible.

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Yes, as others have stated, swinging in the military is very common. Some even say it originated in the Airforce and was a way for wives to get some while hubbies were deployed abroad.

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It has been 10 years or so, but at Great Lakes Chicago Navy base there was a group of sailors going to school and their wives swapping. Some how the word got out and all the guys were busted at Captains mast. The Navy always did enjoy telling people how to live off base in their private lives too. I imagine that the military might still be looking to bust people for anything they can. Maybe different now but I am guessing many armed forces members are still careful what they do and with who. One of the biggest reasons I got out.(the male half here).

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Lol, CumShare. Thank you for your... service?

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Swinging is common in the military. In fact it is probably where clubs were formed long before internet connections. You won't find many willing to overtly advertise because of the possibility of undermining command discipline or exposing themselves to comprimising a security clearance.

I am a retired veteran of the Navy and on every base (in base housing) there was an active swinging scene. Don't confuse this with cheating wives that are out screwing every sailor in sight out in town when their husbands are deployed. My ex-wife and I attended many parties that turned into orgies. We also participated in key parties and in pineapple clubs. This is the source of why many feel a pineapple is a symbol for availability as swingers. When we transferred we could find the in-the-know swingers crowd by going to the commissary and placing a pineapple in the cart and stroll the isles. That's how we introduced ourselves at a new command and met others-in the base grocery store. These swinger groups also served a function when the guys were deployed. My wife attended a few while i was gone but mostly served as third with very close friends. And when I was home and a friend was deployed, it wasn't unusual that his wife would spend the night. My wife wasn't bisexual but she didn't mind having a good friend spend the night and having me service her needs. After all, my wife's needs were being met while I was gone.

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There is a huge US Air Force base near here and I rarely see on this and other adult sites any ads/profiles from couples, men or women openly stating they are in the military. Maybe "don't advertise" is an adjunct of "don't ask, don't tell". I do see tons of ads/profiles from civilian couples and civilian bi or gay men seeking military men. There is something about a man in uniform, I suppose !

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