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I initially got into this as part of a couple and we were looking primarily just for the sex but it has grown into much more than that. I now count many LS acquaintances among my best friends. It's great when you can connect on many levels and enjoy the company of fun, adventurous people and as many have said, the sex is now icing on a very rich and rewarding cake.

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we too are finding it is both.....we LOVE the friends we are making, open and honest. Sex is not a must, but an added bonus. We want friends that can come over with the rest of family and vanilla friends and no eyebrows are raised...we have found that in a few.

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I agree. Its both

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We initially got into this solely for sexual reasons. When the sexual aspect of it turned out to be less than we thought it would...yet realized that swingers are great people...it has evolved into social.


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We think it's both, we have a few friends that we see every so often, it does not always end in sex that night, but it might, the flirting and Sexual innuendos that fly around the table make for a heighten sense of arousal, it makes for hotter sex if it happens. And if it does not, then I and Mrs J have something to look forward to when we get home....lol ;)

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We got into swinging for the pleasure of sexual excitement with new attractive people, but quickly found that there is nothing like the special friends you make when you are "friends with benefits." Whether or not you have sex when you're with these special friends, it's so cool to be able to talk openly about sex, and to have a sexy kiss and a fondle at the end of the evening.

Also, friends with benefits last longer than just casual sex partners.

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"Beaverton sounds like my kind of town"

you ever been there? Beaverton is all right. I grew up near there but the rest of that area bites.

Its social for us. we do not have any vanilla friends that are couples that we would do couple things with and kids make maintaining that kind of relationship difficult specialy when they don't have kids. Going to club is how we get to socialize with other adults.... the sex is just gravy.......

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We thought it was just sexual, but it turned out more social for us. Prefer the positive mental connection rather than just "wham bam" sex. Met some great friends, both vanilla & spicy, in this manner.

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Beaverton sounds like my kind of town......

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Got to say it's a little of both for us. We got couples in the ls that we are great friends with, but rarely play with. We also have some that isn't nothing more than fuck-buddies and them or us has no intrest in it being anything more. If we had to pick one over the other, we would take sexual, just because we have plenty of close friends outside of the ls. D&S

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