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TOPIC: Is Swinging Social or Sexual
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For us its both, we have had some amazing sexual fun, some amazing social fun, some of both with a few couples and Fbuddy level with some, we have made amazing friends, who we have seen through very hard times, ( ie their childs heart surgery, loss of jobs, death what ever) and we and they would not change a thing about any of those moments. We do have causal sex with some couples we meet, but the much more satisfying sexual fun has been with the ones we have a great personal relationship with as well, we mix them with our vanilla life, just introduce them as our friends, no need for more, its no ones business where and how we have met,so bottom line is its what you want it to be,we never came into the life style to make life long friends, but that's what we have found in a few, and would not change that for all the hot sex in the world

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We know couples that go to every party and M&G in town and have been in the lifestyle for years, yet have never swapped. For them swinging is strictly social. On the other end of the spectrum we've had couples walk up and ask us to join them in the play room without even asking our names. Personally we lean more toward the strictly sexual end of the spectrum but we still enjoy socializing a bit.

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Sexual. At this point in our lives, we don't have much time for friends.

Now, if a "friendship" develops, I guess it's ok, but we aren't one of those couples who is looking for LTR with another couple.

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Social sex is a really cool description.

For us it starts as chatting, flirting, and maybe dancing that turns into sex. If everyone has a fun time we are very open to it becoming social too. This is why we prefer on premises clubs and hotel parties- lots of people increases the likelihood of meeting new friends.

We have very full lives with family and tons of vanilla friends who fill 98% of our social time. When we attend a lifestyle event our hope.. not expectation.. but hope is to end up naked. We are very clean, selective, and have refrained from playing way more than we have actually done it. Quality is #1. But when we play-- ya better get a grip on the bedpost ;-)

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For us it's totally both...in that we love to be "normal" friends as well as sexual friends.

Pearl River NY
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I say sex with the possibility of friends. I can meet people anywhere and possibly strike up a friendship. Swinging provides and avenue that you both know your interested in. I can definitely have just a sex relationship with someone. I'm also surprised at how much fun I've had with people from here with my clothes on.


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We consider it social sex. After all, isn't sex the friendliest thing two people can do together?

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Being newbies I cannot say how this could turn out, but why we are exploring is purely sexual right now, to explore fantasies that we may not wish to be just fantasies anymore. One fear wife has expressed is my falling in love with a women I have sex with; I don't think there is much chance of this but it is one of her things to work out (no, I don't give her reason to think that). If we see a couple as friends than is there a greater chance of one spouse leaving the other? We are also a bit introverted so do not go out and party much.

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We try and mix the two. It can be either but we would prefer being social first and then, if things go that way, sexual. Many times we meet with friends for dinner/drinks and nothing else happens, sometimes it is the opposite.

Keep an open mind and go with the flow.

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Having a varied array of experience with different situations we find we much prefer social/sexual with couples. We made great friends with couples and have friendships in and out of the bedroom.

With single males however, we encountered problems a couple times trying to do the "friends with benefits" thing. Feelings developed and it got dangerous to our own relationship.

So with single men, it is all about the sex. We meet for sex. Then the next time we talk its to meet for sex. Nothing further.

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