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User Details are only visible to members.	We try and mix the two. It can be either but we would prefer being social first and then, if things go that way, sexual. Many times we meet with friends for dinner/drinks and nothing else happens, sometimes it is the opposite. Keep an open mind and go with the flow.
Middletown DE			Username hidden (466 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Having a varied array of experience with different situations we find we much prefer social/sexual with couples. We made great friends with couples and have friendships in and out of the bedroom. With single males however, we encountered problems a couple times trying to do the "friends with benefits" thing. Feelings developed and it got dangerous to our own relationship. So with single men, it is all about the sex. We meet for sex. Then the next time we talk its to meet for sex. Nothing further.
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Began totally sexual. Now social 99% of the time. Maybe change that.. maybe not.. not sure.......
Spring TX			Username hidden (1847 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Our main purpose for being here is sex with others and we prefer to not mix our personal life with swinging and swingers. Your uncles Festers funeral nor your daughters wedding are our goal to be sure. I perhaps take the word friendship far too seriously and so I tend to not use it often. That being said we've met a few really wonderful people who are playmates and friends but the friendship came after the fact. The social aspect is fabulous, going to vanilla bars really has zero appeal for us. I want to dress up in a shirt hot dress and not worry if my bottom momentarily shows although it isn't intended too. We've found swingers to be much more fun and open, more welcoming and friendly and now if it isn't a Lifestyle centered party we'd almost rather stay home. What I do find interesting is that it is extremely rare that we hook up at a party, we go to party and meet new people. Playing isn't the goal and surely not the priority. If we meet a couple chances are it will be game on....at another time. We generally prefer to meet couples one on one as it allows more time to get to know each other on a different level without the distractions of a party. Opps I didn't really answer the question lol but perhaps there isn't one. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4084 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I initially got into this as part of a couple and we were looking primarily just for the sex but it has grown into much more than that. I now count many LS acquaintances among my best friends. It's great when you can connect on many levels and enjoy the company of fun, adventurous people and as many have said, the sex is now icing on a very rich and rewarding cake.
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11414 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	we too are finding it is both.....we LOVE the friends we are making, open and honest. Sex is not a must, but an added bonus. We want friends that can come over with the rest of family and vanilla friends and no eyebrows are raised...we have found that in a few.
Pearland TX			Username hidden (3 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I agree. Its both
Emeryville CA			Username hidden (12138 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We initially got into this solely for sexual reasons. When the sexual aspect of it turned out to be less than we thought it would...yet realized that swingers are great people...it has evolved into social.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23660 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We think it's both, we have a few friends that we see every so often, it does not always end in sex that night, but it might, the flirting and Sexual innuendos that fly around the table make for a heighten sense of arousal, it makes for hotter sex if it happens. And if it does not, then I and Mrs J have something to look forward to when we get home....lol ;)
Philadelphia PA			Username hidden (2061 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We got into swinging for the pleasure of sexual excitement with new attractive people, but quickly found that there is nothing like the special friends you make when you are "friends with benefits." Whether or not you have sex when you're with these special friends, it's so cool to be able to talk openly about sex, and to have a sexy kiss and a fondle at the end of the evening. Also, friends with benefits last longer than just casual sex partners. Jim
South Riding VA			Username hidden (8158 post)

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