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Got to say it's a little of both for us. We got couples in the ls that we are great friends with, but rarely play with. We also have some that isn't nothing more than fuck-buddies and them or us has no intrest in it being anything more. If we had to pick one over the other, we would take sexual, just because we have plenty of close friends outside of the ls. D&S

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Always was a sexual hobby not a lifestyle. My life is busy complicated insane at times ...the swing fun is a good way to just step out of the day to day and enjoy some adult sexual dirty fun. Will never be a lifestyle and I dont care to really make great friends. I have those in my personal life.

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I'm curious to see what proportion of people feel that swinging is primarily sexual, and what proportion sees it as primarily social? Would you play with someone that you had absolutely no interest in seeing socially? Is swinging about sex partners who may become friends, or having friends with whom you may (or may not) play?

We've been swinging for over seventeen years. When we first got into the LS, it was all about the sex. As time passed, though, we discovered that we had made some very good friends and that it really wasn't important to us whether we played or not as long as everyone is enjoying themselves. At this point, we find that we're much more focused on friends with the possibility of sex than on the sex itself. But then that could simply be age-induced slowing down, too. LOL

What's your take on the lifestyle? Sex with the possibility of friends, or friends with the possibility of sex? Both? Neither? Have you too noticed changes in your preferences over time?

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