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TOPIC: Hard_to_find_full_swap-different_room_for_you
Created by: HavingFunWithLife
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Do you find it hard finding couples that are ok with full swap different rooms? We have a lot of trouble with it. We have tried the same room, but had to many experiences with the female trying to hard and not really respecting the "straightness" of the female. So we strictly do separate rooms to eliminate that happening. Having said that, does this issue happen with anyone?

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Robin and I once did a separate state swap. She went with the husband to a medical conference in Florida, while his wife and I played here. We had been dating them for months, and she couldn't leave town that weekend because of family obligations, but had time to play at night.

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WE HATE SAME ROOM!!!! My god same room is terrible. i get off on the orgasms i can bring to a woman. Her man freaks and Mrs has a terrible time. He cant get it up and so on. Same room only works if both men are really bad in bed and cum FAST

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I understand that this thread is pretty old, and that the OP is no longer around, but...

I found the motivation for separate rooms for the OP to be something very different from what we've encountered.

In all the time Lady and I have been involved in this LS, only once have we ever experienced someone trying to push bisexuality on either of us, and even this one occurrance was not during any play activities.

Our one experience was at a club, and the bi female was very drunk.

The truth of the matter is that we have run across relatively few truly bisexual women; this being in sharp contradiction to what the profiles might suggest.

I believe there are two general reasons for this, but that's probably another topic.

While Lady and I both enjoy separate rooms as well as any other arrangement, overly pushy partners has never been the reason for it.

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I think most couples in the lifestyle prefer same room as it's such a turn on to watch your partner with someone else. But, yes, distractions are less when in separate rooms and you do get to know this new person better. But it all depends on what you as a couple are looking for.

If you guys prefer separate room, make sure you clarify that with the other couple first.

I (the Mrs) am straight and it can be hard to find other couples with straight females, but we just make sure it's a known thing before we actually meet in person.

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We like both but prefer same room if done right. For example if we are in a room we prefer separate beds. We need to be comfortable playing with our partners.

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We do separate every chance we get..less distraction...no drama

Covington GA
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We're ok with same or separate rooms. We do prefer separate rooms though the first time playing with a new couple. It's less distracting & gives you the opportunity to get to know your new playmate. If there is enough time, we usually get together for a second round of fun in the same room or same bed. Best of both worlds ;-)

Princeton NJ
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we prefer separate rooms here to. So far most cpls we have met have also preferred separate rooms to. We find it less distracting with separate rooms.

Hudsonville MI
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It would defeat the purpose. We just prefer to wait to find the right ones for us.

Houston TX
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Full swap, separate rooms are the best way to go for us. In fact, we have gone a step further and went to separate locations. However the key has always been finding four people completely aligned who are physically attracted to each other.

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