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TOPIC: Hard to find full swap-different room for you
Created by: HavingFunWithLife
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Do you find it hard finding couples that are ok with full swap different rooms? We have a lot of trouble with it. We have tried the same room, but had to many experiences with the female trying to hard and not really respecting the "straightness" of the female. So we strictly do separate rooms to eliminate that happening. Having said that, does this issue happen with anyone?

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I think most couples in the lifestyle prefer same room as it's such a turn on to watch your partner with someone else. But, yes, distractions are less when in separate rooms and you do get to know this new person better. But it all depends on what you as a couple are looking for.

If you guys prefer separate room, make sure you clarify that with the other couple first.

I (the Mrs) am straight and it can be hard to find other couples with straight females, but we just make sure it's a known thing before we actually meet in person.

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We like both but prefer same room if done right. For example if we are in a room we prefer separate beds. We need to be comfortable playing with our partners.

Los Angeles CA
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We do separate every chance we get..less distraction...no drama

Covington GA
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We're ok with same or separate rooms. We do prefer separate rooms though the first time playing with a new couple. It's less distracting & gives you the opportunity to get to know your new playmate. If there is enough time, we usually get together for a second round of fun in the same room or same bed. Best of both worlds ;-)

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we prefer separate rooms here to. So far most cpls we have met have also preferred separate rooms to. We find it less distracting with separate rooms.

Wayland MI
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It would defeat the purpose. We just prefer to wait to find the right ones for us.

Spring TX
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Full swap, separate rooms are the best way to go for us. In fact, we have gone a step further and went to separate locations. However the key has always been finding four people completely aligned who are physically attracted to each other.

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Full swap, separate rooms are the best way to go for us. In fact, we have gone a step further and went to separate locations. However the key has always been finding four people completely aligned who are physically attracted to each other.

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While we prefer separate room, we do play same room on occasion. Fortunately, we have never had an issue with uninvited things happening when we make it to the bedroom. I expect it is because we always address this issue fully in conversations with the other couple prior to getting naked..lol As far as finding couples for separate rooms, we have found most couples are ok with it once everyone is comfortable with each other. Remember though, that just like you expect Bi fems to respect your preferences, you should respect same room only couples preference as well.

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Do you find it hard finding couples that are ok with full swap different rooms? We have a lot of trouble with it. We have tried the same room, but had to many experiences with the female trying to hard and not really respecting the "straightness" of the female. So we strictly do separate rooms to eliminate that happening. Having said that, does this issue happen with anyone?

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