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Can't speak for others, but for us it's a matter of distraction. While we both enjoy knowing that the other is enjoying themselves, we also want to focus on the person that we're playing with. She's been with guys who would be stroking her while devoting most of their attention to their S/O and I and it makes her feel like 'second place'. When we play we want everyone to have a good time, with nobody feeling left out or 'second place'. With doors open, we can easily hear the moans/groans/etc from the next room and know that everyone there is doing well while still keeping our focus on whomever we're playing with and keeping 'the mood' flowing.

For some, I'd guess that same room playing is more about security issues or the visual excitement. We've done same room playing and enjoyed it, but prefer adjoining rooms when everyone is comfortable with that. But that's just us, too.

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we always do same room, except when with friends we have known for a long timeand sometimes that gets very vocal :0

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When I go out with my partner we prefer same room. We dont even prefer to leave each other at houseparties for us the turn on is watching and seeing each other enjoy.

Spring TX
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Security is another reason we don't and won't ever do separate rooms.

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To each its own....Everyone has certain things that they like. We are a both. We like playing in the same room cause we like getting the outsiders perspective on our abilities in the bedroom/sex life. Some people do not like playing in the same room because they have performance issues in front of other people. Others may like separate rooms because they like to get down and dirty and have a wilder side than their significant others might not know all about. Bottom line, we are all in this to have fun, if it is not your thing, only play with same room sex couples only. All we can say is that we are not going to let that stop us from meeting and having some good sex fun with awesome people.

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weshare4fun nailed it

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You get us in the same room as the other couple.. I am the clown in the room.. I like to make ppl laugh.. and it seems to happen at the wrong times.. Like in the middle of a play time.. lol.. So everyone ends up giggling ..an telling me to stop making them laugh.. lol. by that time.. we have forgot what we was doing.. and just giggling. I find it fun..lol.. Prefer seperate rooms.. just because it is more centered on the other person..and I dont drive everyone else crazy.. I talk alot..I'm very vocal.. and I can find a joke in just about anything.. lol

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When we decide we're looking for that we just play separately.

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Same with us basically. We are comfie with it all so long as the bed is large enough (because my bony ass always ends up getting the corner) so we go with the comfort levels of the other couple. We PREFER separate room play. However, not many do and we are understandable with that.

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Ditto on what the last post said. Additionally, there are other reasons we have ran into for people playing in separate rooms. One couple had a male that just couldn't perform with another couple in the room. We tried and it wasn't happening. One night we spontaneously split up in two rooms and it wasn't an issue anymore. Some couples like same room and different beds. Some like two couples in the same bed. Different strokes for different folks. Regardless of what works for each couple one common thread has always been spouses all loved sharing the experiences with each other when they got back home.

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