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We very much prefer separate rooms as well. We will still do same room/separate beds (on occasion) but will not, under any circumstances play in the same bed. The reason for this is the distraction factor. We are looking for intense moments with others (We do not have to hold hands as we enjoy them). Having that hot/erotic play session where you look into your partners eyes and there is no one else in the world at that moment but the two of you is a delicious fantasy to be savored not rushed through.

When you add the intimacy of being alone with this new partner, we find that you are truly able to explore each other without the distraction or 'show' of other people in the room. You are not pressured to pace yourself to your spouse and her play partner for the night. If you want to add extra four-play and hold off on the 'big bang' that's fine, if you want to take a break for a bit and then start up again, also fine. When the other two are in the room there is a unspoken pressure to pace each other that we find distracting.

All of that being said... We understand that it's not for everyone. There are some who are insecure about it. There mind runs with jealousy when they don't see for themselves what their spouse is doing at every moment. The simple idea that they are having a great time without the details is unsettling. Each to their own... right?

Kinnelon NJ
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If we want separate room sex, we just do solos.

Wailuku HI
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For couple swapping, separate rooms are more fun for us as there is more focus.

Tempe AZ
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Ditto to BlueHaven2. Maybe we're a bit ADD? LOL

Petaluma CA
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This is where four way chemistry is very important, we look for another couple to be an extension of our own love making, it a very big turn on for both of us when we are making love and are joined by more hands, mouths and cock and playing the same way for the other couple. We already have awesome sex one on one with each other at home. When we are with another couple its to step it up a notch and experience what we can not with just the two of us.

Saddle Brook NJ
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For me (wife) it is about concentrating on the one I am with. I find others in the room very distracting. We have done same room on a few occasions and I find the male half that I am with spending alot of time watching his wife. So at that point I feel like the 3rd wheel,,,IMHO.

Columbus IN
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We have to agree. We are same way. If I want to see her get pleasured, that's what MFM are for. Its so much nicer to be able to concentrate on the one your with.......Just my 3 cents worth, lol, cost of living you know.....

Goodrich MI
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We thought that we would always play together. Until...

We met this great couple, where the wife was self conscious. It distracted her to play in sight of her husband. So we played apart for several hours, and our eyes were opened. It was so cool to be able to concentrate totally on our new playmates. Later, Mrs. Destin and I laid in bed and told each other about our experiences...which was amazingly hot. Since that experience, we have come to prefer separate play, including sleepovers. The unknown, not knowing what your spouse is doing with a playmate in real time, is really edgy. We love it.

Also, It is a real turn off for Mrs Destin if her partner can't concentrate on her for watching his wife.

I get that it's cool to watch your spouse being pleasured. I dig that, too. But when everybody sparks and feels comfortable, having some distance and privacy is ultra-hot.

Destin FL
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We go with the flow, but we prefer separate rooms. This way we can get into the full experience with our new partners.

For the Mrs the men seem to get so distracted when in the same room with their wife, she just doesn't seem to get their full attention.....and she loves their full attention focused on her.

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We let the other couples make that decision to choose either separate or same. Were comfortable and secure to play both styles. We like both.

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