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TOPIC: Full Swapping in separate rooms
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Two reasons:

1) We once were in the same bed with a couple. While fucking us, they held hands and smiled at each other the entire time like "Hey, look at me!" They paid no attention to us at all. We might as well have been blowup dolls. No thanks.

2) Paula has difficulty reaching orgasm under the best of circumstances. The sounds and motions of another couple in the same room are just too distracting to her, and she has no chance at all for an orgasm under those conditions. We swing to have fun. Those experiences aren't fun.

So we don't care if you disagree with our choice to use separate rooms. It makes swinging fun for us both. So that's what we will do.

Jim

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Oh yikes! Talk about "female inadequacy".... I have such a hard time achieving a single orgasm, I would feel VERY inadequate being in the same room with a woman who is having multiple squirting orgasms! :)

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Here is an issue that has come up from time to time. We've felt the female inadequacy emotion already with the wife who feels her hubby's partner is having too much fun, moaning/squirting for hours and hours, (can get old for the other woman who can only cum a few times), as well as the male who finishes too soon feels a bit guilty. We like both, but sometimes separation works best and we respect that.

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We've done both and prefer same room.

Lahaina HI
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We have done both and like both depending on the setting and the mood of the participants. We always return to each other afterwards though and never stay "swapped" overnight.

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Done both, and prefer separate due to the lack of distraction issue. We played with another couple, side by side, on the same bed... And the fella who was doing my wife would be talking to his wife, "he's doing you babe" "you love the feeling babe?"... My wife said she felt like there was no reason for being there if "he" wasn't concentrating on her. Couldn't agree with her more. Plus, we believe spouses behave differently in a separate room. If you are going to get intimate with someone other than your spouse, why not give it your full attention?

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Done both, and prefer separate due to the lack of distraction issue. We played with another couple, side by side, on the same bed... And the fella who was doing my wife would be talking to his wife, "he's doing you babe" "you love the feeling babe?"... My wife said she felt like there was no reason for being there if "he" wasn't concentrating on her. Couldn't agree with her more. Plus, we believe spouses behave differently in a separate room. If you are going to get intimate with someone other than your spouse, why not give it your full attention?

Santa Monica CA
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we have prefer seperate room we have done it same room but found it bettter seperate then just see each others smile when its over or in the womens case her hair all in disarray

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We play in the same room only. We enjoy watching each other with the other person. Not to say we wouldn't ever play in separate rooms with our current friends it they wanted to, but would never do separate rooms for the first time with someone. I want to make sure my wife is treated properly.

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we second Jim's post -- and will add a couple of thoughts. We often start with same room soft play to kind of set the scene and get comfy, but split when intercourse appears imminent, because 1) the wife is not a voyeur. She is "in the moment" with her partner and doesn't care to watch me and mine. 2) I find it very difficult to give full attention to my partner -- which I think she deserves -- if my wife is also active in the same room (although we sometimes do cross-hall open door play). 3) If we want to view sex as a spectator sport we will rent a porn flick. 4) Yes, we have done same room stuff when another couple wasn't comfortable doing separate, but frankly, we have found (in our long experience) that most mature cpls really prefer separate in any case, so it is seldom an issue.

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