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TOPIC: Full_Swapping_in_separate_rooms
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Just curious to know why people like to have separate room sex? To me and my husband it's all about the experience done together which gets us off. We respect other peoples fantasies and desire to do so but, we both get turned on watching each other getting fucked by other people because after wards for days we relive that experience with each other and it all feels brand new to us all over again.....WE LOVE THAT THE MOST. Someone help me understand what the big hype is about being separated during full swap??????

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There are 2 couples we see semi-regularly who insist on same room. We made the exception for them because we like them so much, and they aren't as weird about it as some other same room couples. Still, every time we're with them I remember all the things I don't like about it. I don't like having people fucking right next to me, so close that the other man and I keep rubbing legs together. I don't like having the sounds of other people fucking that close to me. I don't like feeling the mattress move under me because of what another guy is doing, it totally blows my rhythm. Yes, I know, I'm a freak, even among swingers. None of that is hot, or sexy, or a turn on to me. Been there done that, didn't like it. Still doing it, and still don't like it.

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"Rabbit I can't count how many times we have been cock blocked at a club by a bi lady. We are talking to a couple and things are going well and bam here comes Lucy from another couple hitting on the lady of the couple we are talking to and then end of story. We run into a lot of couples that want to hit on the Mrs and treat the man like a leper. We have played with couples where the other lady is bi, but it is a deterrent to have a straight lady in the lifestyle. I guess the only situation worse would be a bi guy with a straight lady."

Robin is bi, and we've had that brand of cock-blocking happen to us too. That said, it's been our experience that the biwomen issue doesn't matter all that much. Robin is bi, but never makes the first move on any other woman, though she'll respond if the other woman is someone she's attracted to and starts it. In most of our encounters, even when both women in a couple swap are allegedly bi, they might as well have both been straight because none of that happened.

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Rabbit I can't count how many times we have been cock blocked at a club by a bi lady. We are talking to a couple and things are going well and bam here comes Lucy from another couple hitting on the lady of the couple we are talking to and then end of story. We run into a lot of couples that want to hit on the Mrs and treat the man like a leper. We have played with couples where the other lady is bi, but it is a deterrent to have a straight lady in the lifestyle. I guess the only situation worse would be a bi guy with a straight lady.

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"There is also the fact that the swinging world is dominated by couples with bi women."

Can't the Bi women control themselves? I'm bi and have had same bed, full swap sex where the woman was straight and have always managed to keep my hands to myself.

Of course I've had far more "straight" woman that would make the first move on me since I wasn't going to because they were "straight". In those instances I either back off or proceed with caution because I can't be sure if it's really me they want or if it's the husband pressuring them or maybe they had too much to drink.

~rabbit~

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We like separate room play. All in the same bed may sound like fun, but there can be nervousness, lack of space especially on a queen bed and god forbid on a full. There is also the fact that the swinging world is dominated by couples with bi women. We are a straight couple that likes the variety and attention you get from playing with someone new in a separate room where you can have privacy. That's after we know someone and know one party is not going to get the shaft (pun intended).

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We have yet to play with another couple, and we have discussed full swap and would like to do separate rooms with a hosting couple if there are any interested in our profile please hit us up and let's see if the feeling is mutual Jay & Mill

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We do not do separate beds, or rooms, we enjoy seeing and hearing each other, if we were going to do separate rooms, we would just meet one on one.

Houston TX
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We're fine with either. We usually prefer separate rooms the first time we play with another couple. Gives you a chance to get to know your new playmate without the distraction. We often have a second round of play after a short break & then play in the same room or same bed. Best of both worlds! ;-)

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"We understand that it's not for everyone. There are some who are insecure about it."

I suppose the counter argument to your generalization is people who prefer separate room play are too insecure to see their partner with another so they choose to be in another room.

For us it has absolutely nothing to do with insecurity, we simply prefer enjoying the sights and sounds of each other enjoying another. No we don't stare at each other as if the other couple are sex toys. We talk, laugh, smile and encourage the other couple to enjoy the sights and sounds as well.

To each their own indeed.

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We made the separate room preference decision together, after one very bad night. We had a hotel room with 2 beds, and were with another couple. Robin and the other guy in one bed, his wife with me in the other. The two of them were staring each other in the eye the whole time, just going through the motions with us. Hardly paying attention to us at all. We felt like blow up sex dolls. Eventually Robin and I looked at each other, silently mouthed "WTF" to each other, and ended it quickly which included me faking an orgasm, which I've never done before in my life. After that incident, we added the line in our profile about preferring separate room.

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