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TOPIC: Full Swapping in separate rooms

Created by: comenletsplay2 Original Starting post for this thread:
Just curious to know why people like to have separate room sex? To me and my husband it's all about the experience done together which gets us off. We respect other peoples fantasies and desire to do so but, we both get turned on watching each other getting fucked by other people because after wards for days we relive that experience with each other and it all feels brand new to us all over again.....WE LOVE THAT THE MOST. Someone help me understand what the big hype is about being separated during full swap??????

Created by: comenletsplay2
Original Starting post for this thread:

Just curious to know why people like to have separate room sex? To me and my husband it's all about the experience done together which gets us off. We respect other peoples fantasies and desire to do so but, we both get turned on watching each other getting fucked by other people because after wards for days we relive that experience with each other and it all feels brand new to us all over again.....WE LOVE THAT THE MOST. Someone help me understand what the big hype is about being separated during full swap??????

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User Details are only visible to members.	we have done both. it really depends on the others involved. there are times when I really enjoy watching my hubby fuck another woman, and he likes to watch me fuck other men. there are times when I want to be in another room because maybe his partner is not someone I want to be close to. Whichever, we love reliving the details later.
Duluth GA			Username hidden (19 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Same room. We enjoy the experience together.
Fairburn GA			Username hidden (54 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We've never done separate rooms but we think with the right people for us, it would be a lot of fun. For those who enjoy separate rooms, don't you spend time re-living the experience with each other after too?
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2999 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Two reasons: 1) We once were in the same bed with a couple. While fucking us, they held hands and smiled at each other the entire time like "Hey, look at me!" They paid no attention to us at all. We might as well have been blowup dolls. No thanks. 2) Paula has difficulty reaching orgasm under the best of circumstances. The sounds and motions of another couple in the same room are just too distracting to her, and she has no chance at all for an orgasm under those conditions. We swing to have fun. Those experiences aren't fun. So we don't care if you disagree with our choice to use separate rooms. It makes swinging fun for us both. So that's what we will do. Jim
South Riding VA			Username hidden (8164 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Oh yikes! Talk about "female inadequacy".... I have such a hard time achieving a single orgasm, I would feel VERY inadequate being in the same room with a woman who is having multiple squirting orgasms! :)
Wailuku HI			Username hidden (449 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Here is an issue that has come up from time to time. We've felt the female inadequacy emotion already with the wife who feels her hubby's partner is having too much fun, moaning/squirting for hours and hours, (can get old for the other woman who can only cum a few times), as well as the male who finishes too soon feels a bit guilty. We like both, but sometimes separation works best and we respect that.
Mequon WI			Username hidden (1 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We've done both and prefer same room.
Wailuku HI			Username hidden (449 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We play same room, for the same reason we sit at the same table when we go out to eat, Because it about us, not I. When we go out to play it's our date night. We wouldn't go out on a date to the movies and go to separate theaters. Why would we go out to play and go to separate bedrooms.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2225 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We have done both and like both depending on the setting and the mood of the participants. We always return to each other afterwards though and never stay "swapped" overnight.
Fort Worth TX			Username hidden (8 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Done both, and prefer separate due to the lack of distraction issue. We played with another couple, side by side, on the same bed... And the fella who was doing my wife would be talking to his wife, "he's doing you babe" "you love the feeling babe?"... My wife said she felt like there was no reason for being there if "he" wasn't concentrating on her. Couldn't agree with her more. Plus, we believe spouses behave differently in a separate room. If you are going to get intimate with someone other than your spouse, why not give it your full attention?
Sherman Oaks CA			Username hidden (3 post)

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