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TOPIC: Full Swapping in separate rooms
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First, let me say that we're comfortable with either same-room or different-room playing...whatever everyone is happiest with. Having said that, we've found that different rooms, with the doors open so everyone can hear, can be highly erotic. It's also much less distracting, allowing us to focus our attention on whomever we're with. She's had instances where the M she's with would spend so much time watching his wife and I that she'd start feeling slighted. We recognize that not everyone shares our preferences and that, for some, it can be a security issue too. Not to make a bad pun (I'd Never do That <LOL>), but "Different strokes for different folks!"


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To each their own, and you're right- some refuse separate room swap but we both just find it too distracting. It's the voyeur in each of us I guess.

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We can play same or separate room but it has always been same room. Some folks won't do separate and we really don't care either way. Also I can't say there has ever been a distraction issue. To be honest I get into it to the point I forget to watch Wifey getting nailed!

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There's an issue of safety in meeting the first time. Then in the bedroom he gets turned on seeing/hearing her giving & receiving pleasure. She likes seeing him perform, pleasuring another woman (knowing what it feels like). And she has a bit of an exhibitionism thing so she likes being watched.

When we have established a relationship we've both played separately.

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As a single, naturally there are three of us together. A good share of the time, I am with the wife and her husband is sitting back watching or naked on the bed with us watching. Also, a good share of the time the wife is using both of us, either singly or in tandem. Yow!! :-)

However, sometimes, the husband will stick around for a while and just leave us alone together and go watch tv or something. I personally find that to be strange and it makes me nervous. I enjoy being with the wife alone and I can be more intimate with her, but I feel like I am cheating with his wife, or something....I guess. Don't know where THAT feeling comes from, but I prefer us all three to be there.

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@tomanddiane

What about the 3rd round? lol

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Agree 4play, we've brought it up in other forums- finding 4 people who all "click" is nearly impossible.

Pulaski TN
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our fav is separate room play but we wont turn away because someone wants to be different from us. I have to admit though separate room talk afterward is always freaking hot!

Lost we have been doing the singles for a while now, really hard to find 4 people that all have the same attraction! Oh and I prefer chocolate ice cream but would like to sample your strawberry. I will even let you have the nuts... :)

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Those are some very neat ideas. I especially like that second round thing. One thing that we enjoy is the chat on the way home and the interesting pillow talk that we have after separate room play.

Pulaski TN
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We play either way. Same or separate each have their good points. While it is a turn on to see your mate playing with someone else, it can be distracting too. Especially when playing with new playmates, separate rooms gives you the time to concentrate on getting to know a new partner. You can always hear whats going on in the other room and that can be a turn on as well. We often have a second round where we all get together after a break and then play in the same room/bed. We have no jealousy issues. Don't know if thats why some couples insist only on same room or not.

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