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TOPIC: Full_Swapping_in_separate_rooms
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Just curious to know why people like to have separate room sex? To me and my husband it's all about the experience done together which gets us off. We respect other peoples fantasies and desire to do so but, we both get turned on watching each other getting fucked by other people because after wards for days we relive that experience with each other and it all feels brand new to us all over again.....WE LOVE THAT THE MOST. Someone help me understand what the big hype is about being separated during full swap??????

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We have yet to play with another couple, and we have discussed full swap and would like to do separate rooms with a hosting couple if there are any interested in our profile please hit us up and let's see if the feeling is mutual Jay & Mill

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We do not do separate beds, or rooms, we enjoy seeing and hearing each other, if we were going to do separate rooms, we would just meet one on one.

Houston TX
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We're fine with either. We usually prefer separate rooms the first time we play with another couple. Gives you a chance to get to know your new playmate without the distraction. We often have a second round of play after a short break & then play in the same room or same bed. Best of both worlds! ;-)

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"We understand that it's not for everyone. There are some who are insecure about it."

I suppose the counter argument to your generalization is people who prefer separate room play are too insecure to see their partner with another so they choose to be in another room.

For us it has absolutely nothing to do with insecurity, we simply prefer enjoying the sights and sounds of each other enjoying another. No we don't stare at each other as if the other couple are sex toys. We talk, laugh, smile and encourage the other couple to enjoy the sights and sounds as well.

To each their own indeed.

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We made the separate room preference decision together, after one very bad night. We had a hotel room with 2 beds, and were with another couple. Robin and the other guy in one bed, his wife with me in the other. The two of them were staring each other in the eye the whole time, just going through the motions with us. Hardly paying attention to us at all. We felt like blow up sex dolls. Eventually Robin and I looked at each other, silently mouthed "WTF" to each other, and ended it quickly which included me faking an orgasm, which I've never done before in my life. After that incident, we added the line in our profile about preferring separate room.

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We actually like all.. sometimes same room looking into each others eyes while having hot sex...other times solo play time. My husband actually sets up one on one play dates at hotels and our home as a surprise to me.. with our LTR Single Guy.. we both love it.. It just works for us. Just hot and we talk about it all week.. !

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We very much prefer separate rooms as well. We will still do same room/separate beds (on occasion) but will not, under any circumstances play in the same bed. The reason for this is the distraction factor. We are looking for intense moments with others (We do not have to hold hands as we enjoy them). Having that hot/erotic play session where you look into your partners eyes and there is no one else in the world at that moment but the two of you is a delicious fantasy to be savored not rushed through.

When you add the intimacy of being alone with this new partner, we find that you are truly able to explore each other without the distraction or 'show' of other people in the room. You are not pressured to pace yourself to your spouse and her play partner for the night. If you want to add extra four-play and hold off on the 'big bang' that's fine, if you want to take a break for a bit and then start up again, also fine. When the other two are in the room there is a unspoken pressure to pace each other that we find distracting.

All of that being said... We understand that it's not for everyone. There are some who are insecure about it. There mind runs with jealousy when they don't see for themselves what their spouse is doing at every moment. The simple idea that they are having a great time without the details is unsettling. Each to their own... right?

Kinnelon NJ
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If we want separate room sex, we just do solos.

Wailuku HI
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For couple swapping, separate rooms are more fun for us as there is more focus.

Scottsdale AZ
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Ditto to BlueHaven2. Maybe we're a bit ADD? LOL

Clovis CA
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