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TOPIC: Full Swapping in separate rooms
Created by: comenletsplay2
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Just curious to know why people like to have separate room sex? To me and my husband it's all about the experience done together which gets us off. We respect other peoples fantasies and desire to do so but, we both get turned on watching each other getting fucked by other people because after wards for days we relive that experience with each other and it all feels brand new to us all over again.....WE LOVE THAT THE MOST. Someone help me understand what the big hype is about being separated during full swap??????

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For me (wife) it is about concentrating on the one I am with. I find others in the room very distracting. We have done same room on a few occasions and I find the male half that I am with spending alot of time watching his wife. So at that point I feel like the 3rd wheel,,,IMHO.

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We have to agree. We are same way. If I want to see her get pleasured, that's what MFM are for. Its so much nicer to be able to concentrate on the one your with.......Just my 3 cents worth, lol, cost of living you know.....

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We thought that we would always play together. Until...

We met this great couple, where the wife was self conscious. It distracted her to play in sight of her husband. So we played apart for several hours, and our eyes were opened. It was so cool to be able to concentrate totally on our new playmates. Later, Mrs. Destin and I laid in bed and told each other about our experiences...which was amazingly hot. Since that experience, we have come to prefer separate play, including sleepovers. The unknown, not knowing what your spouse is doing with a playmate in real time, is really edgy. We love it.

Also, It is a real turn off for Mrs Destin if her partner can't concentrate on her for watching his wife.

I get that it's cool to watch your spouse being pleasured. I dig that, too. But when everybody sparks and feels comfortable, having some distance and privacy is ultra-hot.

Destin FL
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We go with the flow, but we prefer separate rooms. This way we can get into the full experience with our new partners.

For the Mrs the men seem to get so distracted when in the same room with their wife, she just doesn't seem to get their full attention.....and she loves their full attention focused on her.

Ukiah CA
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We let the other couples make that decision to choose either separate or same. Were comfortable and secure to play both styles. We like both.


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Personally I enjoy same room, I enjoy watching my wife have a good time. I enjoy seeing her enjoy herself. My wife is on the fence, she can easily get distracted by noises she is not making or by a bed moving in a differentpattern than what she is moving. So at times separate rooms works better for her to relax and enjoy her own experience.

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We like either, it usually depends on the other couple's preferences, as we like everyone to feel comfortable.

That said, here's one small story about sex in the same room/bed: I was with one husband, his wife was with another husband, and were having sex on the same bed (ours...king). I was pretty much worn out (thanks, you know who you are), and my guy went to the bathroom, and to check on things elsewhere. The woman and man fucking on the bed near me were going at it, nice rhythm, and basically rocked me to sleep! If you knew me, you'd know that's a big deal, as I rarely fall asleep easily. I told them they need to pair up and do it again some night for me when insomnia rears its ugly head. :)

It is sometimes a good thing when you can focus on another partner, but an important aspect is to return and reconnect with your spouse at some point.

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I can't fuck when the bed is moving underneath me to the other guy's rhythm, it totally blows my own rhythm. Hate same bed.

Same room is tolerable, but not my first choice.

Separate is prefered. I like to pay attention to the woman I'm with and like it when she's paying attention to me. Call me old fashioned.

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We've done separate room only twice and loved it both times. Sometimes same room with one other couple has been a distraction especially if one person is too verbal or noisy and we're not used to hearing them say naughty things.

Three couples in one room can be amazing when everyone is clicking and having fun. In 10 years that'shappened twice but stoodout as unforgettable nights.

Too many people in a room can be concerning too- if you onlyknow a couplepeople and get separated. It's happened to us onlyonce where she was starting to play with a new guy and the lady I was about to play with hooked up with another woman instead. In that case it was really awkward as I stood there not knowing anyone and feeling left out. Moral of the story for us: keep the numbers relatively small and thepeople ones you know- we like everyone we're with to have a great time!

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We have done both. A few times we started in separate but the doors were open or it just happened that we got separated. We could how ever hear each other. Nothing hotter than knowing she squirting and I can hear from another room how wet she is. By morning we all ended up in the same bed. Although we have done separate where we didn't see each other for hours. That time it was ok but not great we both like to watch and it gets us off watching each other get someone else off.

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