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TOPIC: Ever_Find_People_You_Knew_Before_This?
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Our greatest fear is finding someone we knew before the lifestyle, already in the lifestyle. I tell my wife that it wouldn't matter because our secret would be safe with them. That's like running into your dad's boss, who wrote a great letter of recommendation for you, at the strip club.

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A few times. Interestingly enough, most were former classmates.

Emeryville CA
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I heard about this site yesterday via reddit and within a half an hour my lady and I found a coupe that we know very well from the gym. We kind of figured that they were in the lifestyle but this put the confirmation on it.

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We met a couple recently. And then found out that they are our neighbors. It was actually kind of creepy because they knew this about us but we didn't know it except for some things they said because we pretty much don't know anybody locally and keep to ourselves. As soon as I got home I googled them and was like holy shit they live next door.

Dayton OH
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Twice.

I'm the luckiest swinger ever. The first time we discovered clubs, we went to one of the local clubs. As soon as we walked in the door the first time, standing 10 feet in front of us was a single woman we already knew, but had no idea she was involved in this. We had a threesome with her that night, and several times after that.

Another time was about 5 years ago, at another local club. Back then there were 2 in this city, but no more. We met the guy who had the office right across the hall from Robin. Robin was about to freak out, but I told her to confront it, and just go up and say hello. It turned out well. He was there with his girlfriend. We would have loved to hook up with them, but they were much younger than us, and weren't interested. But he did tell Robin, "I always thought you were cool, now I know just how cool you are."

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One of the first I ran into on the site was the female half that we would see once a month at a local bar. We knew each other from chatting outside in the smoking area. One night Mrs F told her that we had seen her in the SLS. And she was so cool about and we got a real friendship. She has been a sort of mentor. Another couple was a little unexpected. But when they added The Who Viewed Me feature they were one of the first to show up. I had coached with him, knew his kids and ex wife. Everything kind of made sense after that. They regularly look at our profile and one day I might mail them back. First time at a club, as we were waiting for our drinks we heard some dude say, ibyhjnk I know you at Mrs F. She was like I hope not and then she saw who it was. It was a former coworker and then his behavior all of a sudden made lots of sense to her. He was great. He spent time with us (we were fresh newbies) giving us tips and advice.

The lifestyle is a small world and chances are statistically speaking that there are members from your close circle of acquaintances.

Little Egg Harbor NJ
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Receptionist about 50 YO at a new Doctors Office. She was at a Swinging New Years Eve Party two years ago. We knew it and she knew it.

Thornton CO
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One time the ex-wife and I (she wasn't the ex at the time) went to a upscale charity event, and one of the people checking us in, giving us the goodie bag, was the female half of the owners of the local swing club.

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The first club party , we went to, as a couple, SURPRISE, SURPRISE, the club host and hostess', were the sponsors of our daugthers youth bowling team. No wonder, some sundays, they looked beat, when they came in to be with their kids when they bowled.

Lyons NY
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We've known people to run across their neighbors, ex's, siblings, children, parents, co-workers and bosses, etcetera, at LS events. It does happen. When it happens, well, they're there for the same reason that you're there. About the only thing to be done is to shake hands, laugh it off and move on. It really isn't that big of a deal.

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Tammy has run into one of her regular customers at a couple of parties. At a party, recently, one of the men there asked me about a job I used to do. I didn't recognize him, but he remembered me. In both cases, it's no big deal. I think it would be more awkward to know them from the lifestyle and then run into them in the vanilla world.

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