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Age should not matter but it does. Proof: some acquaintances of ours are our age, both 68, and we play with them some when they are in town as they are a lot of fun. They are in good shape like we are, the wife is a size 6 like my wife. Both are college degreed as we are. They are very laid back and good conversationalists. However, they list their ages on SLS as both 58, .........and they get three times the contacts that we do.

A funny thing happened, however. Because of their listed age, they received an invitation to a house party that advertised no one over 60. When they walked into the den that had been set aside as the naked play room, our friend's real 58 year old sister was on the floor on all fours and being pleasured by the family dentist doggie style.

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We have been in the lifestyle for some 14 years now, and our first full swap with another couple was rather interesting.. After a great night they came clean on thier actual ages.. At the time they claimed She was in her late 40's and he just 50... Actually she was 51, and he about to turn 60. Our issue with it wasnt thier ages, but that they lied, if you are gonna tell tales about that, then what else are you gonna lie about. It was a shame, because we told them it didnt matter we were comfortable with them and to be honest, since then, we have encounter folks younger that, were put to shame by folks twice thier age.

We couldnt agree more with the other post, BTW, We look at the ages, sure, but the profile info is much more important. A well written profile and a positive attitude can carry a hell of a lot more wieght with us than anything else.

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One of the deciding factors to whether we meet a couple is not age, but what they have written in their profile. If a profile has not been filled out adequately (little to nothing written), we'll send out a "sorry, not interested" response. We have yet to set an age limit on who we are willing to meet. However, pictures may be a deciding factor. If you look like my sweet innocent grandma or a dirty old pervert we may send a "not interested" response, as we prefer the mature sophisticated look.

We are also discriminated against due to our age. Some couples prefer not to play with someone that is younger than their children. We respect you for that, but have had enjoyable experiences with older couples that can overlook our age.

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As for us we do enjoy the younger couples, but we decided not to go younger than our children,which is 30, there is no age limit going above our ages, although she prefers the older male when we are playing MFM, she says older guys enjoy her totally,and she does them, older males know how to treat a female, and knows they will hold out longer for her to enjoy their male tool, whether they have a pump or have taken the smurf pill (virgira), she truly enjoys being with a older guy anytime.

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As for us we do enjoy the younger couples, but we decided not to go younger than our children,which is 30, there is no age limit going above our ages, although she prefers the older male when we are playing MFM, she says older guys enjoy her totally,and she does them, older males know how to treat a female, and knows they will hold out longer for her to enjoy their male tool, whether they have a pump or have taken the smurf pill (virgira), she truly enjoys being with a older guy anytime.

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We don't think age is particularly important tbh. Granted most of the couples we play with are of a similar age to us, but there are a few that aren't. We have played with a couple on two occasions (even stayed over once), who were in their late 50s/early 60s, which was great. We played at their house, where they made us feel very relaxed and we were all more than satisfied physically. I'm sure we'd meet up with this couple alot more, if it wasn't for our busy schedules. Then on the other side of the coin, there is a couple who only live down the road from us who are 18 and 19, that we play with alot. Now granted, we wouldn't usually look for couples this young. Infact it was a drunken thing after a BBQ origonally, which could've been a mistake as i have a son who's only a couple of years younger. But fortunately we've been very lucky with them. They're very much on our wavelength to talk to, and although we socialize with them (as in drinks etc), we trust them to be discrete with the other side f our relationship. I suppose though, that this may not be the case in ten years time. As right now, us being in our 30s. Means that we are at an age where we can be on the same wave length, as someone in their early 20s or late 50s. But as it is now, i'd say age doesn't really matter to us.

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Is your child younger than 29? LOL, I'm teasing. He is 29...but 36 isn't THAT far away from 29. Just a small jump. You know I'm really 29, I just have 7 added years of experience. That sounds better, I'll go with that!! :0)


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Age is just a number, unless that number is lower than our son's number. The thought of playing with people younger than our off-spring kinda creeps us out. But hey, that's just us, everyone has their own set of rules, that just happens to be ours.

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they usualy dont have to deal with kids and finding baby sitters etc. "

Haha true that...if it weren't for Grandma we'd never be able to be swingers LMAO. We prefer couples near our age group, 30s to early 40s for various reasons. Like you said, they tend to be at the same point in their lives as we are and more understanding to babysitter issues, etc. because they are going through the same things. Other than that it depends on the man with me. I don't go too late 40s just because of my personal bad luck with men in that age group and erectile issues. Not saying ALL men in that age group need pills, just saying that MY experiences have shown that. I have played with one 23 yr old a few times and may play with another 23 yr old that lives here in SM. But as always, it depends on the man. I played with a man in his late 30s that was great and one barely in his 30s that was not so good as a play partner...so its just the individual I suppose.


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age is not an issue for us. We prefer couples close to our age but we are willing to meet couples of any age and see if things click. But there is an advantage to couples our age and a little older.........they usualy dont have to deal with kids and finding baby sitters etc.

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