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""bilady33

Him: Straight ,64 Her: Bi ,37 When you go to meet a new couple have you checked out there age frist and if so what makes you not want to meet them. My wife is 33 and I am 51 what do you look at to determine weathewr you'll meet or not. We have been rejected both ways so what do you think and not only the difference but age in general? Presque Isle WI Report to Moderator 2049 Days Days Ago "" =========================

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yes and no we have met couples younger than us and they are great then we have met couples that at the end its only the male part that gets the benefits so you judge for yourself

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personally as long as the cpls are attracted to each other what hte hell diff does it matter about age .

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"There are So Many people who automatically assume that an older cpl are just fading remnants of swingers who obviously aren't capable of doing much and with whom they would never have much in common."

Well, although that's stated rather strongly, in the interest of honesty I think there's good reason why assumptions are sometimes made. I won't speak for others except to say many friends in our age group or a bit younger have shared with us similiar particulars. Anyhow, for us swinging has changed. Gone are the days when the party could last all night. We are definately not for the party's just getting started at 11 crowd. Because our party is ending at midnight. Not too long ago a much younger woman with a fantasy of Bacchus got him. We had already been honest but she was a bit disappointed when after some hours she was told that puppy really wasn't going to stand up straight anymore until the next morning. For me, although well past menopause, I have zero arrousal or lubrication problems. However, the man who tells me he's gonna fuck me for 3 or 4 hours straight is not going to fuck me. Because my arthritic back can not take it that long. Granted, Bacchus and I could increase our fitness level. But we do all the other things right. If people are willing to understand and work with us that's wonderful. If they are not that's wonderful too. But we are honest about our age and the implications of it.

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Putnamcocpl ... I can certainly understand why someone might be mightily tempted to misrepresent their ages at first but then come clean later. There are So Many people who automatically assume that an older cpl are just fading remnants of swingers who obviously aren't capable of doing much and with whom they would never have much in common. The temptation can be overwhelming to just bend the truth a little in order to get people to just give you a chance. If you enjoyed their company, I'd suggest that you give them a second chance and don't blame them too much for succumbing to temptation in this instance. Of course, if you later find other un-truths, that's prima facea evidence for cutting someone out of your life.

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Discreet we are about 5 miles from you if you live by or on the golf course. I am not sure about how the mileage thang works, but I usually don't pay attention to it.

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BTW, it says we're 0 miles from eachother, or 26 minutes by car. That is some slow driving.

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Howdy. :) Totally get what you mean about single guys circling and honing in on their target.

My wife tends to attract a lot of attention, especially if her legs are teasing a miniskirt, but she's more for cerebral interest. I don't garner the same level of interest, lol, and that's okay. I'd be cool even if I were just there to tag along. :) We're in love and she's not going anywhere. Ever. It's just exhilerating to see her get hit on.

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BTW Discreet Hi Nabor. :)

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I don't get wrapped around age very much, it is more of a issue for my wife than me. I personally like mature playmates, now that does not mean age, it means that they are mature enough to not be prone to drama. Now most of our friends are in their 30s to 50s, just the way it has worked out.

I think age does matter as a preference to some and it is valid and should be respected, just as any other preference. One thing both me and the wife have noticed when going out is how males will work they way around looking for a target. They start out with the skinny young gals and eventually make it to the older women or the heavier ladies. And oddly enough they all claim to have a thing for BBW's and Older women... LOL

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