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Age doesn't matter to me. As long as there is attraction and they are over 18, then lets get it on!

Carrie

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I'm 74,,,my wife is 62 this week,,,age is definitely a factor,,,in ads answered,,at parties,,,with invites,,,I'm probably at the top end, but I love to be around people in the life style,,because most are genuine, not a bunch of fancy airs. Most are incredibly honest as well, and thats great. I dont mind one bit someone saying I really prefer someone younger. Thats honesty. And I love you gals for being honest,,,as wel as beautiful. But please dont shut us older couples out of your lives because your not attracted to us, We can still carry on a great conversation, be witty and funny. We still socialize well. And we do enjoy being around others in the lifestyle.

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Hahaha, stop it you flirt!

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Damn, and I was so hoping you were going to say a handsome, rugged 61-year-old!

Jim :-(

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Yes practice and let me know because a handsome, rugged 45 year old man is S E X Y. I'd much rather have George Clooney than Brad Pitt. Yummy yum yum.

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It probably matters most in terms of how they have looked after themselves. A glance across the general population will suggest that there are many people of similar age or younger who would not make desireable partners, and some somewhat older who are interesting and attractive.

Regarding erectile strength, aging causes changes. The ED drugs--Viagra et al--can make a substantial contribution towards restoring firmness and so on. Refractory time (from ejacuation to the next erection) continues to increase with age. The skilled older male should be learning how to prolong sex as long as he wants. Just as a virtuoso pianist plans to get to Carnegie Hall...practice, practice, practice.

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My only major concern with men around 45 is the erectile issue in truth. Honestly I think men in their 40s are charming, mature, intelligent, yummy yum yum. I haven't had good luck with them though in the fucking category though.

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I have given this some more thought and age does matter. But the next important thing is what is written in the profile and sexual orientation. If a person passes those requirements then it is sexual attraction. If this does not exist no meeting will occur.

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When it comes to age always remember; Where you are going, I have been!

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For older swingers, age is an issue. Since we are at the upper end of those participating in the lifestyle, we decided to look into the matter. We took a look at the age preferences of 79 friends couples. It is clearly not a random sample simply because we selected them as friends for one reason or another and not for age, however, we tend to stick with folks over fifty. We compiled the data and this is what we found. If you can bear with us, fine; if not, that's OK too.

The average age of the men was 55.6, and for women of the couple, 54.0. The age range for men was 48 to 69; for women it was 48 to 65. In summarizing the age preferences of this group, we took the average age of the couples, 55, and the average of the lower and higher age limits. What we found was that was low end was 17.4 years younger that they were (about 37) and the high end was 8.3 years older than they were when they specified a limit (about 63 couples) - a definite bias toward youth. Data for the high end was inconclusive because ten couples used an upper limit of 99 which a couple we met told us that it meant that there was no upper age limit.

None of this should be surprising since it is well known that sexual vigor, if not the desire, tends to diminish with age. Accordingly, those interested in sex with others will seek out those in whom the juices are still in full flow. A closer look at our sample reveals some subsets with differing outlooks.

There are ten couples who have no upper age limit. For two couples, the low end of the bracket is a 21, which means that the age of their partners is irrelevant. For other it varies from a few years younger than they to quite a bit younger.

The majority of the couples favor ages about 15 years younger to about 10 years older - a reasonable range.

Ten couples like to have partners who are anywhere from about 12 to 26 years younger than they are, but limit the upside to couples less than five years older than themselves. We are bemused by these folks who are willing to mix it up with a much younger crowd, but don't entertain folks much older than themselves. We think this is reflective of an ego that might not be of interest to us in any case.

As the lifestyle community expands, we feel there is a place for older swingers that is presently lacking. We do all we can to demonstrate that sex is rejuvenating and invigorating. Our experience is that it is the older women who retain their enthusiasm, interest and sexual capability well into their sixties and seventies. The pharmaceutical industry has come to the aid of the men who would otherwise have called it quits. The elders among us can demonstrate what is in store for younger folks as they age. We will make optimists of you. Give older swingers a try.

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