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We have gotten flak for not having our upper age higher. Fact of the matter is Trooper is 11 years older then me. Most of the emails we get from gentlemen 55+ look more like my 71 year old dad then my spouse. I have put our upper age as the same age as my husbands current age.

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The Ms. Would prefer to have a couple close to our age, however a lot of the ppl we are attracted to are younger than we are.

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Age rarely has anything to do with it. Having current nice pictures is what we look for. If the attraction is there and the pictures are current then age is not important.

That said what we have noticed is that with a lot of the couples that have a 10+ year age difference from us the older partner is out of shape or looks too similar to the age of our parents. Both of which are a turn off.

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To the OP, yes it matters to us and we are in a similar boat. In a few days I will be 51 and she is still 39 for six weeks. At her age and level of fitness she can easily snag a guy in his late twenties. Often times those guys are connected to ladies even younger which makes the gap larger.

Two things that can smooth it all out though is great physical fitness and fun personalities. Those two things can turn people who are maybes into yesses.

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Age is an issue of mind over matter. If you don’t mind, it doesn’t matter. ;) In the LS we have met couples / Women that are younger and some who are older than us. Attraction is key when deciding to meet/play with a couple. Don't see a point where someone needs to lie about their age if they are serious about meeting up. We always go through the entire profile which includes the age and as long as its in the ball park range that we have in mind it really doesn't matter.

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never will I understand why people lie about their age or weight. People stop kidding yourself. You look your age, dont let anyone tell you otherwise.

Why on earth are people embarrassed about who they are? Why disrespect others by deliberately misleading them. And if they lie about silly things like age and weight, what else are they dishonest about?


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""bilady33

Him: Straight ,64 Her: Bi ,37 When you go to meet a new couple have you checked out there age frist and if so what makes you not want to meet them. My wife is 33 and I am 51 what do you look at to determine weathewr you'll meet or not. We have been rejected both ways so what do you think and not only the difference but age in general? Presque Isle WI Report to Moderator 2049 Days Days Ago "" =========================

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yes and no we have met couples younger than us and they are great then we have met couples that at the end its only the male part that gets the benefits so you judge for yourself


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personally as long as the cpls are attracted to each other what hte hell diff does it matter about age .

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"There are So Many people who automatically assume that an older cpl are just fading remnants of swingers who obviously aren't capable of doing much and with whom they would never have much in common."

Well, although that's stated rather strongly, in the interest of honesty I think there's good reason why assumptions are sometimes made. I won't speak for others except to say many friends in our age group or a bit younger have shared with us similiar particulars. Anyhow, for us swinging has changed. Gone are the days when the party could last all night. We are definately not for the party's just getting started at 11 crowd. Because our party is ending at midnight. Not too long ago a much younger woman with a fantasy of Bacchus got him. We had already been honest but she was a bit disappointed when after some hours she was told that puppy really wasn't going to stand up straight anymore until the next morning. For me, although well past menopause, I have zero arrousal or lubrication problems. However, the man who tells me he's gonna fuck me for 3 or 4 hours straight is not going to fuck me. Because my arthritic back can not take it that long. Granted, Bacchus and I could increase our fitness level. But we do all the other things right. If people are willing to understand and work with us that's wonderful. If they are not that's wonderful too. But we are honest about our age and the implications of it.

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