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TOPIC: Does age matter when meeting a new couple
Created by: bilady33
Original Starting post for this thread:
When you go to meet a new couple have you checked out there age frist and if so what makes you not want to meet them. My wife is 33 and I am 51 what do you look at to determine weathewr you'll meet or not. We have been rejected both ways so what do you think and not only the difference but age in general?
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Honest opinion; YES!

There are areas we definitely have found where age has played a part on our overall interest in couples: how well they keep themselves together, how mature/experienced, sometimes also in the drama dept. We've found a range we tend to feel have more in common with us and make us more comfortable when looking at couples...

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Well from experiance age does matter to a lot of people in this world, try looking for employment at 59 and you will see the problem. Most men really look good at 59 or so but a lot of women look some what old, and vise a versa. A lot depends on how we take care of our selves, and how we present our selves. Old is not bad but young in not always good either.

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As an older (60) single man, it's pretty much a given that 99% of couples under 50 are not going to be interested in me as a 3some partner. When my ex-hotwife and I were in the lifestyle in our 20s thru our 40s, we were only interested in couples and men near our ages or younger, so I understand this and accept it. Being orally bi also limits interest in me from many couples in my age range who might otherwise be interested, so it's kinda a double whammy working against my desire for bi 3somes with couples LOL. Still, I don't and won't complain about an age bias or a bi bias, and I won't lie about my age or sexual orientation. The couples I do meet nowadays are all over 55, very hot and playful and very much fun to be with. The only downside to them has been that they only get in the mood to play 1 or 2 times per year. That too is understandable. I also enjoy fwb meetings with other bi men, mostly married and mostly near my age, but I do find that many younger bi men have a thing for older, mature bi men.

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Ourage parameters are set at 21- 99, we make decisions to meet/greet on an individual basisdetermined by theoverall profile content andpictures.Sometimes we factor in also, whether they are a local couple/single we will run into again or a tourist on vacation that we will likely never see again.

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We have gotten flak for not having our upper age higher. Fact of the matter is Trooper is 11 years older then me. Most of the emails we get from gentlemen 55+ look more like my 71 year old dad then my spouse. I have put our upper age as the same age as my husbands current age.

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The Ms. Would prefer to have a couple close to our age, however a lot of the ppl we are attracted to are younger than we are.

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Age rarely has anything to do with it. Having current nice pictures is what we look for. If the attraction is there and the pictures are current then age is not important.

That said what we have noticed is that with a lot of the couples that have a 10+ year age difference from us the older partner is out of shape or looks too similar to the age of our parents. Both of which are a turn off.

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To the OP, yes it matters to us and we are in a similar boat. In a few days I will be 51 and she is still 39 for six weeks. At her age and level of fitness she can easily snag a guy in his late twenties. Often times those guys are connected to ladies even younger which makes the gap larger.

Two things that can smooth it all out though is great physical fitness and fun personalities. Those two things can turn people who are maybes into yesses.

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Age is an issue of mind over matter. If you don’t mind, it doesn’t matter. ;) In the LS we have met couples / Women that are younger and some who are older than us. Attraction is key when deciding to meet/play with a couple. Don't see a point where someone needs to lie about their age if they are serious about meeting up. We always go through the entire profile which includes the age and as long as its in the ball park range that we have in mind it really doesn't matter.

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never will I understand why people lie about their age or weight. People stop kidding yourself. You look your age, dont let anyone tell you otherwise.

Why on earth are people embarrassed about who they are? Why disrespect others by deliberately misleading them. And if they lie about silly things like age and weight, what else are they dishonest about?

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