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TOPIC: Does age matter when meeting a new couple
Created by: bilady33
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When you go to meet a new couple have you checked out there age frist and if so what makes you not want to meet them. My wife is 33 and I am 51 what do you look at to determine weathewr you'll meet or not. We have been rejected both ways so what do you think and not only the difference but age in general?

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Age is extremely important. Be legal and do not be dead. After that we can negotiate everything else. ;)

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Mr AA here.

Age matters to us in part.

We can be cerebrally attracted to people, but not physically enough to participate. Our fun usually includes people from 25-35 or so. I have been with an extremely mature 18 all the way up to a very young looking 62. However, my attraction mostly lies in a younger looking face as it's much easier to get and stay hard. It's simply not fair to my playmate if there exists the potential for my body to cease interest right in the middle of play.

Even though I have kept my mind open, it has happened with older, but never with younger. I easily get and stay hard within what I have found to be my subconsciously desired range.

Mrs AA has had some fun with older guys that are very talented and have top tier stamina, but she confessed after a few times that she would really rather stick to younger men as she is simply not as attracted to older. Nothing wrong with that because it's far more fun when you know your true boundaries.

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As a baseline assumption take as a given that there has to be some attraction, but given that we have met unattractive 30 somethings and simply DELICIOUS 60 somethings then to Tink and I, age is not a factor.

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Age matters to us.

Spring TX
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Everything should matter when looking at profiles and choosing a couple, but nothing should be a deal breaker if most other requests are met.

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Or, alternatively, all we ugly old men could go back to school for some refresher English so we know the difference between to and too, die and dye, loose and lose, and regime and regimen.

We wouldn't look any better, but we might encourage others to think we had acquired a bit of wisdom with our years.

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So this has been beaten to death by now, but here is our observation on older men in particular. GET TO THE GYM!!! Now if that has never been part of your regime to bad you will loose out. If you have a full head of hair you don't have to look old. Some gray distinguished. All gray = old. Die you hair and have it done professionally. If you are bald or shave bald don't grow that goatee or beard. One, they make you look old and two,if gray they make you look even older. Take care of your skin with lotion every day. Plastic surgery? Depends, but try the bags under your eyes first. Bottom line is you need to start thinking like a metro sexual. And lastly teeth. If you have crummy teeth that's a big strike against you. Spend some money, get them fixed and w

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Honest opinion; YES!

There are areas we definitely have found where age has played a part on our overall interest in couples: how well they keep themselves together, how mature/experienced, sometimes also in the drama dept. We've found a range we tend to feel have more in common with us and make us more comfortable when looking at couples...

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Well from experiance age does matter to a lot of people in this world, try looking for employment at 59 and you will see the problem. Most men really look good at 59 or so but a lot of women look some what old, and vise a versa. A lot depends on how we take care of our selves, and how we present our selves. Old is not bad but young in not always good either.

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As an older (60) single man, it's pretty much a given that 99% of couples under 50 are not going to be interested in me as a 3some partner. When my ex-hotwife and I were in the lifestyle in our 20s thru our 40s, we were only interested in couples and men near our ages or younger, so I understand this and accept it. Being orally bi also limits interest in me from many couples in my age range who might otherwise be interested, so it's kinda a double whammy working against my desire for bi 3somes with couples LOL. Still, I don't and won't complain about an age bias or a bi bias, and I won't lie about my age or sexual orientation. The couples I do meet nowadays are all over 55, very hot and playful and very much fun to be with. The only downside to them has been that they only get in the mood to play 1 or 2 times per year. That too is understandable. I also enjoy fwb meetings with other bi men, mostly married and mostly near my age, but I do find that many younger bi men have a thing for older, mature bi men.

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