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TOPIC: Do you play with people that lives near by
Created by: lgsbcs
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Does it worry you/bother you to play with people who live in the same town as you? Would you be willing to fool around with someone who has children that goes to the same school as your children go to.

We have, but just curious what others thinks about it.

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We prefer to swing with ppl in the same town. I dont see the purpose of traveling hours for a get to know you or that play session because the vibe may not be right

Douglasville GA
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We never play with anyone closer than next door.. Had a couple right next door for years that was our best vanilla friends. Swinging came up one night over coffee and we decided to swap that night. We were open to FMF, MFM, MFMF but never MF alone. Worked for a few years until they moved to Texas

Blue Ridge GA
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I live 15 miles from a major city (Macon GA) and 5 miles from a small town in the next county north of Macon. I would gladly meet and/or play with couples and bi men from either town if we chat 1st and hit it off, but there are very few of them near here who are seeking older bi men. Although I'd prefer to travel 50 miles or less, the Atlanta area is all within a 1.5 to 2.5 hour drive from here, so I've decided to start looking there.

Kennesaw GA
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We ran into neighbors at a M&G a while back. It was a bit awkward but we said hi & chatted. (They weren't our type btw) We'd never betray anyones confidence & they certainly didn't betray ours. Why would anyone do that when they would have to explain what they were doing at a lifestyle event? As far as playing with people who live close, why not? Cuts down on travel time & leaves more time for fun :D

Princeton NJ
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It's not impossible to drive to the next city for a party and still run into your co-worker, kids friends parents, or ex. Having said that, the only reason that they'd be at the same LS event is that they have the same interests. Whether you run into neighbors at a small town house party or a big city club, they have just as much to gain as you do by being discreet...and just as much to lose by not. If they out you, they out themselves too.


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Yes we have and still would. Just like everyone else, discretion is of most importance. Out of town is fun, but there is always the thrill of running into someone you have been with in the grocery store or elsewhere. Kinda builds the sexual tension.

Lubbock TX
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We are Discreet and as long as we know that the people we meet are the same, we have absolutely no problem playing with people who live close by. Would be pretty great to make friends who live close to us here in Orlando.

Orlando FL
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No because the local group has been known to gossip. If I want my sexlife talked about, I will do the talking myself!

West Branch MI
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Some of our play friends live less than a mile from us and we enjoy the ls and the vanilla activities with them. Never been a problem with us, of course we have only been in the lifestyle for 25+ years so you never know.

Spring Branch TX
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we would love to have a couple who lived in our home town. So far we havent had that. most couples we have known have been 30 to 50 miles away or more. As long as they are discrete i see no down side to living close by a couple that you play with. With the cost of fuel these days the closer the better LOL

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