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We ran into neighbors at a M&G a while back. It was a bit awkward but we said hi & chatted. (They weren't our type btw) We'd never betray anyones confidence & they certainly didn't betray ours. Why would anyone do that when they would have to explain what they were doing at a lifestyle event? As far as playing with people who live close, why not? Cuts down on travel time & leaves more time for fun :D

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It's not impossible to drive to the next city for a party and still run into your co-worker, kids friends parents, or ex. Having said that, the only reason that they'd be at the same LS event is that they have the same interests. Whether you run into neighbors at a small town house party or a big city club, they have just as much to gain as you do by being discreet...and just as much to lose by not. If they out you, they out themselves too.


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Yes we have and still would. Just like everyone else, discretion is of most importance. Out of town is fun, but there is always the thrill of running into someone you have been with in the grocery store or elsewhere. Kinda builds the sexual tension.

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We are Discreet and as long as we know that the people we meet are the same, we have absolutely no problem playing with people who live close by. Would be pretty great to make friends who live close to us here in Orlando.

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No because the local group has been known to gossip. If I want my sexlife talked about, I will do the talking myself!

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Some of our play friends live less than a mile from us and we enjoy the ls and the vanilla activities with them. Never been a problem with us, of course we have only been in the lifestyle for 25+ years so you never know.

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we would love to have a couple who lived in our home town. So far we havent had that. most couples we have known have been 30 to 50 miles away or more. As long as they are discrete i see no down side to living close by a couple that you play with. With the cost of fuel these days the closer the better LOL

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We live on a small island, so we've played with couples that live here. Can't help it! The closest one we have ever played with lives about 5 miles away.

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No. When I play I go outside my community because I like my personal life to be personal and my play fun to be where I dont have to worry about a business or a busy body of the community seeing me. I have teens and I dont care to bring any drama to them by way of thier mothers dirty little secret.

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To me having swinging friends close by would be great, but unfortunatly not everyone feels the same way

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