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Role reversal as in the ladies want to see the man with another man...like the guys always want to see us girls with each other.

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Bi...not gay.... K of RK

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We add our "agreement" MandE's.

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I have to agree with Lenny about the role reversal with men. I think you have a point.

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I'm listed as bi, because I enjoy the whole experience with other couples...male AND female play. I consider myself heterosexual, but when we're with other couples and the women will play, I get into that. I love FMF, and FF with the guys there to be "helpful". I certainly would never EXPECT another woman to be sexual with me, but I'm open to it if she is. Originally, I listed myself as bi-curious, but that doesn't really seem to capture it...I suppose "bi-friendly" is more accurate now. I'm not really looking for 1-on-1 encounters with other women, but I enjoy the sharing when appropriate!

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R is my first priority...if he isn't happy then I can't be!

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Content, your wife would be safe with me...I would never violate her by pushing myself on her. I may tell her she is sexy and beautiful but I would never in a million years push myself on a woman who is straight. One of the first rules we learned in swinging...NO means NO! That is what we live by K of RK

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I have a hunch (just supposition on my part with no data to support it) that the reason why there are so many more bi women than bi men goes way beyond sexuality and has its roots in our society, or may even be hard-wired into our behavior through a million years of evolution.

I think it's pretty safe to say that, in general, (and there are always plenty of exceptions) women bond with each other much more then men do. Even as adolescents women seem to be able to bond with each other much better than men. Women often have a sizeable circle of close women friends, with whom they openly share their thoughts and feelings, whereas men usually have just a couple of close buddies, and about the only things they talk about are sports, cars, and women. There doesn't seem to be that open sharing of feelings, and as a result men don't develop the depth of feeling and affection for each other that women do.

This gender difference probably has its origins way back in the Dawn of humankind, and no doubt was functionally valuable to survival then. Nowadays a little more male-male sharing of feelings and affectionate bonding might make for a much safer world less likely to degenerate into terrorism and war, both of which, by the way, are predominantly male activities.

Whew! That's a long-winded way of proposing a hypothesis that it's much easier for women, with their open sharing of feelings and affectionate bonding with each other, to have sexual feelings for each other than it is for men. Again, that's a generality, not an ironclad rule.

Speculation is such fun, isn't it?

Jim

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We love the strips during oral play. What an intense feeling. I about jumped straight up off the bed the first time I they were tried on me.

Now, about the straight/bi question. Ms Smoothmoves is now listed as bi-curious, at her request, because some of the men we've been with used to insist that since she was bi, they wanted to watch her "do" their partner. According to her, and I completely agree, she is not a trained seal to perform on command. We have actually got up and left someones house when the other guy just didn't get it, and kept insisting. I've seen her in some pretty juicy bi encounters, and she enjoys them a lot, but only when it's agreed on between her and the other lady(s).

We have seen and met quite a few bi males in our area (Please, no "fruits and nuts" jokes about California), and they seem to be pretty much everywhere that we've checked out profiles. We also lived in Las Vegas for a while, and bi guys were pretty common there, too. I think a lot of male issues with the whole bi thing, is that before getting into the lifestyle, I doubt if many men have actually been around another man with a real, live erection, except in porno movies and such. Then all the social taboos kick in, too, about how Real Men just don't do that kind of thing. Society just isn't set up to deal with it. I've noticed in clubs and parties that bi-ladies are just about everywhere, and the show is usually pretty fun to watch. But you never see any guys doing anything even remotely like the ladies. Even in the liberal, open minded lifestyle, it's just not commonly accepted as much. We've found that a lot of guys don't even bother mentioning it in their profiles any more, but they will talk about it when you meet. I guess it just turns a lot of people off automatically. If we meet someone who insists on pushing their preference on us, we just say No Thanks, and move on to the next couple.

One of the great things about the lifestyle, is that you're free to do whatever you like. There's no group you have to join forever, and the only real rule is No means No. If I choose to be straight, then that's fine and no one will question my choices. If someone else chooses to be bi, or polka dotted, or whatever, then that's what works for them, and I have no problem with it.

I suppose I should say here that I'm not bi, but I'm not homophobic about it, either. There are times when some sort of contact with other guys is just natural. If someone else chooses to be bi, then that's up to them. To each his own.

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Content, If you have never tried using those Altoid or Listerine or any other brand of breath freshener strips before oral sex, you are in for a treat! It creates a warming/tingling sensation and male or female will think you are the ultimate oral satisfier! Try it, I will guarantee it to be very exciting!

My wife is straighter than straight and she is blunt about it so I don't think she is a liar.

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