Are there ANY Straight Women: Swingers Discussion 4878010161

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User Details are only visible to members.	Right on target, Jewel! A FMF is hot hot hot having your husband as the center of attention. I'm wondering how many straight fems routinely engage in a FMF - for their husband to be the center of attention and not any FF play.
Mountain Ranch CA			Username hidden (8750 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	" I never expect a woman to play with me in a swing situation. And please, do not expect me to play with your lady just because I am BI." She moves to the bonus round. I find this interesting. I have a couple of "rules of thumb" when deciding to interact with someone. I talk/communicate with THAT person. I verify attraction/willingness/availability to play on both sides. Otherwise there is NO Go. It matters little what their "label" or sex is. I have noticed many straight women feel the need to tell me. I suppose being hit on by all those posers makes them gun shy. I can read in an instant that they are straight and/or have no interest. It's not Voodo science. Sometimes actual bisexuals are thought of as doing "anything that moves." Nothing could be further from the truth. We have our likes and dislikes just like everyone else. This topic devolves into common respect for the other person's needs/wants/desires at that time....nothing else. Any partners who show other than that respect are NOT my partners. I have gotten up and left when they have tried to change the game plan midstream. Her deciding that she "wants to give it a try". Not with me, not at the spur of the moment, not after a few drinks. It's only after a sober discussion of boundaries that I might change mine. You start the night straight...You finish the night straight.. It's just common courtesy...that happens to be uncommon. I also don't assume you will want to play with me again...if you already have. But's that's a story for another time. Mischief wonders how she got in this forum
Glen Burnie MD			Username hidden (2785 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think it all boils down to open communication of what all are seeking. We take into consideration of the orientation bi-curious, bi. But we rely on what is written in the profile. We don't contact couples where it is indicated in the profile wife is very bi-- that to us means f/f play in a must and focus. We will contact a couple where the profile indicates f/f play not necessary or secondary.
Howell MI			Username hidden (1615 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We (my wife and I) have had lots of mfm,mfmf , and lots of orgy types parties where bi play is encourged.My wife is totaly straight .We have played with many couples with bi ladies and have ever ,ever had a problem.We always make sure the others know right up front
Waterford CA			Username hidden (5 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Yes, I have learned to not believe what the other male has to say about his wife's desires....but to ask her myself before there are any misunderstandings. Too many times I have found him trying to "stack the deck" in their favor.
Mountain Ranch CA			Username hidden (8750 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	simba I can see that happening, I know for one my husband would love to see me with another woman. But since either I or the two of us together answer or send the email that will not be the case coming from this couple. And I'm not saying it will never happen that I might want to play with another woman (ok don't really see it happening either but never say never lol) so I'm just up front with the fact that I don't play with the girlies, if they are ok with it and still wanting to meet that is fine. pirategirl
Louisville KY			Username hidden (13983 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I have found many times there is a lack of communication on the other side. Usually the male is surfing the profiles and there have been several times we know of that the wife of the other couple never reads our profile. Her husband makes promises and "interest" on her behalf that she is looking for the right girl for ff play....thereby leading us on. What we find out is the male is pushing to meet us so to play with me (Ms Simba) knowing that if I knew his wife had zero interest and was completely straight, we would most likely turn them down. Unfortuantely, I find this a lot....so, being mislead happens on both sides of the fence for bi couples and st8 couples.
Mountain Ranch CA			Username hidden (8750 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	1fatcatus, I actually changed our profile shortly after joining. My husband had put in it some to the effect of "female play maybe in the future if she decides she swings that way" and we got a bunch of emails from couples with ladies who might be able to show me the way lol. Took that line out ;)
Louisville KY			Username hidden (13983 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I agree trouper.. The "bi"thing has not interfered with us meeting couples. I think the key is about communicating your boundaries. I could be wrong but I think the indication of whether your straight, bi- curious, etc., is your preference. I typically read the profile clarification. Sometimes the profile will indicate bi not "required" or " not necessary but nice." Your wife should never feel pressure to do anything she is not comfortable with. Sometimes there are pushing couples, but I think that will always exist, unfortunately.
Howell MI			Username hidden (1615 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Ok I'm newer to this so maybe not the best person to answer 1fatcatcus but so far in our talkings to couples with Bi women, it has not been a problem that I am strait. If in emailing the first meeting I got the idea that they were going to push it then I just wouldn't go through with the play. To me the hard part about all this is not finding a non-bi female but to find a couple that both hubby and I agree on and that also likes us. Just make sure when you are meeting couples and setting down the "rules of engagement" as I like to call them what her comfort level with contact is, whether is no contact at all or touching doesn't bother her but true sexual contact is a no-go for her. Pirategirl (hoping she is making sense this am)
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