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User Details are only visible to members.	Wants2.. We have found the opposite to be true. I am a straight female and we are always running into couples wanting only f/f play while the hubbies watch or join in with their own spouses. My thought has been why does there always have to be f/f play. So we do pass up on many couples. That is just not my kink.
Howell MI			Username hidden (1615 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Why is it that it seems to always got to come down to the men having to be involved. And from what we have heard and discovered when the men get involved the whole focus changes from female enjoyment to what makes the men happy. Anyways sometimes men just mess up a good thing. think you have heard the wrong thing from the wrong people
Philadelphia PA			Username hidden (5330 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Hi, I agree with you. We got into this for the same reason and even had to change my profile to read that I would allow the guy to watch. After that I did get more responses to my profile. Would love to chat with her sometime. Just contact me through my profile (bicylist) and maybe we could both help each other out with what we are looking for.
Boardman OH			Username hidden (1 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Hey wants2bewild, I totally agree with you if I sounded like I didn't it came across wrong :{. I to was looking for just females to have fun with, and if the hubby was to play than I was ok with it if the lady I was with was ok with it as well. In no means was it a necessity for me to have fun with a girl bi myself LOL. I just think the visual of him doing her and me being right there to help or just watch is awesome. But I am mainly here for girl / girl time. We have recently decided to try soft swap and see what it is like. It is hard to find other couples that just want to watch the ladies play but they are out there and we have found some in our area. But like most couples we are looking for that exclusive unicorn to play with as a 3some. Good luck to you and like I said before, have fun, Later,, M..
Norfolk VA			Username hidden (122 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Wow, haven't seen this topic in forever. Just for starters, I didn't start this topic to offend anyone. I was just hoping to come across some folks that share the same thoughts as myself. Now as for am I looking for girl/girl or 3-some. I primarily joined to just meet more females like myself, and my hubby is perfectly ok with it just being a girls only situation. And I would have made myself a single female profile, but I find that is just incredibly misleading and not me. I believe in being up front and honest. As for the "we" part of it all. I just don't like the idea of meeting up with others without my husband present. Yet just because I don't meet up without him present doesn't mean I don't play without him present (I have played with other bi-females without him being present). I just prefer he always meet and be comfortable with those I do play with. Now as for a 3-some, yes that would be awesome. And if it opportunity arises, then wonderful. If not, that is just as ok. And yes, I understand it isn't the normal view of swinging that there is only girl/girl play, but I am also aware there are others like us out there as well. And not to sound like the selfish type. If my hubby had the opportunity and wanted to, I am perfectly fine with him getting to play too. Ok, I have said much more then a mouth-full and sound crazy and clueless. LOL.
Niles MI			Username hidden (23 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	hello again wants2bewild, I just got done reading your whole profile, and I really have to ask you if you are looking for a girl for a 3some, or just a girl for you. I saw a whole lot of we like and we would love to try, so on etc. just a question? You might want to revise your profile a little to clear things up a some.
Norfolk VA			Username hidden (122 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Hello wants2bewild, ___________________________________________________________ ".......The hubby in our situation is completely ok with the girls having some playtime on their own, he would love to be able to join in, but it isn't a necessity for us. The thing is that in most other couples it comes down to if the guys don't get to play too that it isn't worth the time. Why is it that it seems to always got to come down to the men having to be involved....." __________________________________________________________ It sounds like you don't have a problem with the hubby joining as long as the ladies agree?? You opened up pandora's box with that statement. Most couples will take that as if your hubby plays than so does mine, and than it is somewhat of a free for all... Our thoughts on play are very similar, we are here for my wife, if I get to play its just an added bonus for all of us. But it is not a necessity for me to play as long as it is just the girl/girl..... We have run into the same thing as far as a rue to get us all in the room.. You will find that sometimes.... We are now soft swap and have talked about going further if and when we are comfortable. That may happen and it may not. I agree with looking for a vanilla or maybe a friend that might have similar thoughts. And there are other couples out there that will and do girl / girl only, but make sure you don't bring up that he may play because that opens the door to all parties to play. Couples are here for them as a couple, and enjoy the togetherness of full swap play. Check out the locale bars that cater to the lifestyle and or lesbian and gay bars. It works. don't give up and have fun along the way.....
Norfolk VA			Username hidden (122 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We are exactly like you and hard a hard time at it at first, but then decided to form a TAME group and searched only for couples that were also ONLY listed as tame. It has helped alot. We now have over 30 members. You should form your own for your area.
Mullica Hill NJ			Username hidden (7 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	You may want to consider investigating vanilla clubs as well. I don't know if our experiences are typical, but three out of the four single women we've met over the past few years, we've met in regular clubs while out dancing. You'll most likely have to invest some time and form friendships first though. If you're just looking for a woman to play with that night, then swing clubs may be the best option,imo. ~C
Reno NV			Username hidden (1177 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Well, I think that if your profile is completely upfront with what you are looking for you will find that there are couples who are looking for what you are; we have met them quite a few times at parties. Just this last weekend as a matter of fact we met a couple where the wife only plays, albeit with both men and women. But the husband is happy chilling out while she has fun. With Jay and I, we both enjoy sex and playing. So yes, I would play with your wife as fun foreplay but at some point I'm looking for a male lol. But again, this is absolutely clear in our profile. Just put things very succinctly in your profile as to what you are looking for, couples will find you who are looking for the same thing. Shell
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23665 post)

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