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Jail... but would that not be like someone not respecting your boundaries regardless if it by a man or women in play. I am not bi but I can only relate it to women not respecting my boundaries not interested in women who try to cop a feel or more when everyone is hot and heavy. Just my thought, if the guy is becoming obnoxious than it is a boundary issue - especially if you said to stop and he keeps doing whatever he is doing that you do not want- and I would call a halt to play.

But I think the real key is that there is a clear understanding up front of what everyone wants. If you just want women play they let the men know.
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Because a lot of them tend to forget their manners when seeing two females playing together. Just because someone is bi doesn't mean they want both sexes at the same time, all the time.

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Lost... that is an interesting question... I thought bi meant you enjoyed both sexs.
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In my own experience, I'd prefer to just set a playdate with a woman. That way, we can take our time, enjoy and have absolutely no interference from males. They can be quite obnoxious to say the least. "

Hey sweets, hope you are well! I read your post and I ask purely out of curiosity. How are men obnoxious?
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Communication is the key and if that doesn't work then there can be uneasy feelings. Just have to take it all in stride and hope things will be better the next time around.
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You have to remember that if the hubby is there watching he is getting turned on also. After all we are only human. We are both straight but she is bi friendly if it calls for that. If you're really into the girl/girl thing and don't won't the hubby yours or hers to mess up anything then meet her alone.
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I think you mis-understand voyeurism/exhibitionism with soft swap. Now given, we are full swappers as well, but we are friends with lots of soft swingers. Soft swingers can really be very hot. You can do everything from oral to hand jobs, there are lots of options for you to do. I don't think this is about soft swapping though, this is about girl/girl play. I know many soft swappers who are both play or no play.
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We got into this for the same reason and even had to change my profile to read that I would allow the guy to watch."

I do assume you are open about this from jump, correct? Given I am straight...but I do not know many bi ladies that exclude their husbands. I just do not like the "allow" statements. I do not like it when a single tells us, a couple, that they will "allow" him or myself to do anything. I was quite firm with the last single man that told me he would "allow" Jay to come along..I said he is loaning you HIS pussy, HE will allow...not you sir.
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Being a bifemale, one would think you like men too. And you find it perfectly okay to play without your spouse playing? It may be alright for you but swingers like to swing, voyeurs are watchers. Thinking unless you permit him to play on the side as well, then the post reflects a selfish nature.
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