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Probabaly because of the transient nature of our playmates, we have had this problem. Most of our playmates are on vacation or cruising. We are happy to see them come/cum, wish them bon voyage when they go, and welcome them when/if they return. In the interim, we touch base with them via e-mail now and then.

However, this did happen to us with long-term, very close and affectionate vanilla friends. Four years of doing practically everything together, and then "BTW, we are leaving." That did feel like a break up and it does hurt - you have my sympathy.

Unless you find and can make work a truly polyamorous relationship, that is what will happen ... but it beats not trying at all. You will find the right balance between you and your playmates. Like everything else worth having, it takes practice and patience.


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We always keep a little distance. For us, too much emotion when swinging can bring about many, many unwanted problems.

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Have you ever had a swinging relationship end because one person calls it off??? This is kind of happening with us right now and it sure does feel like a break-up and it SUCKS!

Just wanted to know if anyone else has ever felt this. Not really looking for advice or sympathy...just to know we're not alone.

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