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Have you ever had a swinging relationship end because one person calls it off??? This is kind of happening with us right now and it sure does feel like a break-up and it SUCKS!
Just wanted to know if anyone else has ever felt this. Not really looking for advice or sympathy...just to know we're not alone. |
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Here's a problem. How do you know they think of you as friends?
Yes, they may say you're friends, but they may have their own reasons for saying so. My sense is that, at least for some on here, "friends" means people you swing with. Once you're no longer interested in doing that, they're no longer your friends. So one way to think of this is the opposite of "lost friendships because of swinging" -- lost interest in swinging ended the friendship. |
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Lost contact information with friends and that sucked. Once you click with the right people loosing that could put a damper in things. I don't understand how couples get jealous over another couple?
I would not be offended if a couple we met said they had plans and could not party with us and choose another couple sexually. But if we lost the friendship and they just stop communicating with us then yes we both would feel a little blue about that. |
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Fairburn GA |
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We have had a couple like that. It sucks
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Cumming GA |
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Jealousy issues from within another couple caused us to completely cut them out of every aspect of our lives. Yes, it sucks.
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Pulaski TN |
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We've lost a couple early friendships due to swinging with other swing couples. Due to insecurities on their part...most likely lack of total communication between themselves. They broke off contact so we don't know exactly, but through deductive reasoning we have been able to put the piece together after the fact. Most of the time we see a breakdown in communication, a few other times it has been a couple's half trying to get away with something or crossed signals due to victim of circumstance.
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I know the feeling. We had a few couples we were playin with. They knew we were not full swap when we started hanging out. Then all of a sudden they stopped calling us and never im'd us.. It did feel like a break up..i felt really sad!...
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Maryville TN |
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I'm the wizardest.
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Rochester NY |
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I'd fuck ya in that pic.
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Rochester NY |
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you lady's are too funny...lol
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Howell MI |
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scrop... Maybe I am hearing you wrong but you must have many friends that have drained you that you keep yourself at a distance.
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