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TOPIC: lost friendships because of swinging
Created by: onehotcouple44
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Have you ever had a swinging relationship end because one person calls it off??? This is kind of happening with us right now and it sure does feel like a break-up and it SUCKS!

Just wanted to know if anyone else has ever felt this. Not really looking for advice or sympathy...just to know we're not alone.

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To answer the OP yes it has happen to us. We had a couple that quit for religious reason and I wish them well we spent some incredible weekends with them. We have had others that quit because of their jealousy to them because of the drama they brought I say go fuck yourself

Charlie

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Here's a problem. How do you know they think of you as friends?

Yes, they may say you're friends, but they may have their own reasons for saying so.

My sense is that, at least for some on here, "friends" means people you swing with. Once you're no longer interested in doing that, they're no longer your friends.

So one way to think of this is the opposite of "lost friendships because of swinging" -- lost interest in swinging ended the friendship.

Kitty Hawk NC
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Jealousy issues from within another couple caused us to completely cut them out of every aspect of our lives. Yes, it sucks.

Pulaski TN
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We've lost a couple early friendships due to swinging with other swing couples. Due to insecurities on their part...most likely lack of total communication between themselves. They broke off contact so we don't know exactly, but through deductive reasoning we have been able to put the piece together after the fact. Most of the time we see a breakdown in communication, a few other times it has been a couple's half trying to get away with something or crossed signals due to victim of circumstance.

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I know the feeling. We had a few couples we were playin with. They knew we were not full swap when we started hanging out. Then all of a sudden they stopped calling us and never im'd us.. It did feel like a break up..i felt really sad!...

Powell TN
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I'm the wizardest.

Rochester NY
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I'd fuck ya in that pic.

Rochester NY
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you lady's are too funny...lol

Lansing MI
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scrop... Maybe I am hearing you wrong but you must have many friends that have drained you that you keep yourself at a distance.

Lansing MI
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DandJ.... you articulated it so well. I value all my friendships. I don't weigh one over the other and I don't consider a friends spoken or unspoken need as a burden. When friendships end it can be disheartening but I have learned in life you never know if the friendship will re-flourish.

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TOPIC: lost friendships because of swinging