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Just curious how common it is to find other who just want to watch and be watched vs. touching, full swing etc. My husband and I are considering going to an event (our first) but aren't too sure on what other's expectations will be at a swing event. TIA

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as dukewilliam said, contacting the hosts is always a good idea, but keep in mind, the evening flows as the evening flows. like many things in the lifestyle, parties can be "hit &miss" so to speak. however, most parties we have been to usually have an open play room where you can choose to participate or watch, your choice.

don't worry about anyone's expectations except your own.

Orlando FL
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BLT,

Mail the people throwing the event and tell them of your preferences. Ask if you would be welcome. That's what we have done to great success.

Steve

Wexford PA
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we're tame too: not much luck meeting tame couple and at events we have attended met a few pushy people. but can remenber only one really bad happening: almost ended it for us, took months before the female side to return to meet any couples. hope u two have good luck here.

Odem TX
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Just curious how common it is to find other who just want to watch and be watched vs. touching, full swing etc. My husband and I are considering going to an event (our first) but aren't too sure on what other's expectations will be at a swing event. TIA

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