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Just curious how common it is to find other who just want to watch and be watched vs. touching, full swing etc.
My husband and I are considering going to an event (our first) but aren't too sure on what other's expectations will be at a swing event. TIA |
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as dukewilliam said, contacting the hosts is always a good idea, but keep in mind, the evening flows as the evening flows. like many things in the lifestyle, parties can be "hit &miss" so to speak. however, most parties we have been to usually have an open play room where you can choose to participate or watch, your choice.
don't worry about anyone's expectations except your own. |
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BLT,
Mail the people throwing the event and tell them of your preferences. Ask if you would be welcome. That's what we have done to great success. Steve |
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we're tame too: not much luck meeting tame couple and at events we have attended met a few pushy people. but can remenber only one really bad happening: almost ended it for us, took months before the female side to return to meet any couples. hope u two have good luck here.
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Just curious how common it is to find other who just want to watch and be watched vs. touching, full swing etc.
My husband and I are considering going to an event (our first) but aren't too sure on what other's expectations will be at a swing event. TIA |
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