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TOPIC: anyone had trouble with full swap and decided to switch to soft
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Mrs Fun.... I still laugh when I think of him putting that dick in your face!!! He is lucky he didn't come back with a stub....after getting The Redhead mad!! Still kinda ticks me thinking Mr Sim enjoyed his wife....ick.... there is a "situation" ready to happen the next party we encounter with them there.... I don't want to have to deal with him!

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....oh Bad Annie... all of us could be verrrrrrry bad!!!!!!

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Ms Meanie... you don't play on the first date?.....ahem...... ahemm.. .ahem.... !!! Suuuuuurrrrrrrre you don't...LOL!!!

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Opps, silly me, was looking for Tawney, Thanks!!

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Huh? Tawney's post is still there....

Oh, thats the whole point of my husband's zen attitude.... it's ALL fun to him...no matter what or who..... Thats why he never makes comparisons to other people and can find something nice about every person.... however... I can't look at it that way.... his glass is ALWAYS half full no matter what in playing...

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Tawney, I might have liked your post. Too bad you deleted it!

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Bad Annie... I bet there aren't many that can understand what we are talking about.... glad to hear I'm not the only one. My husband though has a different attitude... he is very Zen about it all. He looks at every "encounter" as just an experience and not as a good one or bad one... and he tells me just to look at them as an experience and never judge them or compare them.....but then again, he also believes he could play with ANYONE.... because there is some positive aspect to every person (even if its just the shape of their shoulders) and he just concentrates on that one thing about them if he can't find anything else about them that trips his trigger.... My logic can agree to this thinking... but my emotional side says... "You've got to be kidding right?"

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Tawney terrific post!! Everyone needs to do what they feel comfortable with and yes I have thought about switching to only soft swap at times... and wouldn't completely rule it out in the future. Went to the club this past Saturday and again..... no one can come close to matching the fun I have with my spouse and so I continue to question just what is the point of it all at times. I played with 3 guys and physcially I had orgasms...big deal I say to myself..... I look over at my husband playing and think to myself ....this guy doing me is a 50 and my husband is a 150 on the scale so how does one get excited going out to play with people that are substandard compared to their spouse? I think I'm spoiled...

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Me either. It depends on the person/couple if an emotional friendship developes.

Nothing is "Either/or" in this lifestyle. No black, no white, just a wide spectrum of colors.

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No. We don't! Thanks!

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