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TOPIC: anyone had trouble with full swap and decided to switch to soft
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| My boyfriend and I have been swinging for almost a year and love it. The problem is that a few months ago I started getting jealous of couples we were close to emotionally. Casual encounters were great, but once we get to be good friends with a couple it's hard for me to deal with the emotions. I was wondering if soft swap might work out better for us? Has anyone experienced going from full to soft swap? We both love swinging, and neither I nor him would like to get out of the lifestyle. |
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Thank you, it is greatly appreciated. Shell
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Shell the more I see your posts the more I like you!!!! You sound well centered intelligent and mature. Something really needed in the lifestyle. FJ
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I know with us, we didn't become pro-active because of our jealousy issues, but because we are plagued with other couples that have issues. We love full swap, but we have just become more pro-active.
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LOL, yes it can definately be a MESS. LOL
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Well, its official!! In regards to couples play we are soft swap only for the next 6 months at LEAST. After last night we have decided that too many "full swap" couples have too many issues...its just not worth our time and money. SO. We will play with couples but only on a soft swap basis until we know that there are no issues.
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i haven't read all of the replies but thought i would add my 2 cents- we switched from full to soft mailny b/c we HATE condoms. i react to them, he hates wearing them, and rather than spend energy finding condoms we like we simply removed full from the menu. hasn't changed the pleasure of the experiences we've had one bit- when we fuck each other with others present and participating orally... mmmm.
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Well, it is true to never assume. I'm glad he was cool with everything. I think he assumed because your husband agreed to do full with his wife. But you are right, never assume anything. To me, as long as I know everything from the very beginning I am good with it.
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It was his fault. He looked at my husband and handed him a condom and said she really wants you to fuck her....... okay. Then he assumed I would say yes to him and didn't ask me. Major mistake on his part.....Never assume anything. She apparently wanted to fuck my husband really bad. However.... he was cool about it and said he didn't mind just oral at all and said to me that his wife was really going to enjoy my husband doing her.
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Surprised he didn't extract her from your husband and switch to enjoying sex with her. Have to say we differ with your use of the term "full-swap" - it's only full swap if it goes both ways. The "my hubby wants to do your wife but you can't do me" just doesn't work for us.
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