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TOPIC: Would love to Cross over to Full Swap
Created by: southnjcouple1
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We been soft swapping for about 20 years and I just cant break the barrier to full swap. She fantisizes about getting fucked by someone but it is ony fantasy. I am also fine with me not fucking anyone as its her I want to see get fucked. We have had serveral 3 somes with guys and she will suck him off until completion and same with couples... hmm not sure if there is an answer but I am willing to listen.....

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Lmao...

Mcdonough GA
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@Cougar & DWW...I think the obvious solution is that the four of you should meet with me and we all enjoy some naked time together. That way if there is a desire on your part to see your sexy wife with another guy but the lady is uncomfortable participating in a swap situation, I am there to fill the void, so-to-speak.

Yes, I am a problem solver at heart.

;^D

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Damn...got on a hurry. I knew I should have proof read or done a spell check...damn!

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@cougar...it's simple really. I'm a regular hot-blooded guy, and of course, I can "want" to fuck a sexy woman without having it overshadow the fun we're otherwise having. After all, I'm already "fucking" the hottest woman in the room! Full swap would be awesome also, but that's nit where my wife is right now. We always have to stay at the slowest comfortable pace in a particular couple...and that is usually the lady.

My point us not that I wouldn't love to see Ms D having a great time with full swap (fucking) another hot guy...nor am I say that I don't have attraction to hot ladies...I do. What I am saying is that Ms D is infinitely more than "enough" for me...in every way imaginable. And I have desires (like any guy would), but no "strong urge" or need to fuck other women. Pretty nice place to be actually...I like it! :-)

Mr D

PS: There are a couple of exceptions to this general rule though, and if we ever get to central Fl or LA...well, I'll be definitely asking for some extra permission from my Princess. Even I have limits to my discipline and self-control! Lol

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God how could you be with a cute chick and not want to fuck her. I's beyond understanding to me

Charlie

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@GFandMe...my take on the OP was that he wants to see her go "all the way", but she wants to stay at the soft swap level. I could be wrong on that, but it's the way I'm getting it.

My wife is currently in the same place. Like the OP, I really have a great time playing with the other women at the level that we're at, but don't have strong urges to fuck them. Though i'd really like to see my wife fucking other guys...she only wants that with me at this point.

But that's just fine too...

We are both having a great time and will be happy where we are at unless she wants to take it further. I suspect that will happen eventually, and probably like it did with a previous poster, when least expected.

Mr dances

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We never had an issue with the 2, but then that was just us.

it appears to us, truly bi-females have less issues.

Just our 2 cents worth

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Welcome to the Big Leagues Peakcouple69, LOL!

We were full swap from the start but have played with a few soft swap couples. Also at times an intended full swap has turned into a soft swap when the other male wasn't "Up for the job".

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We soft-swapped for about 6 or 7 months before she felt ready to fuck another man. We'd do just about everything with other couples but when we needed to fuck we'd swap back and just do it together. I was ready for a full swap almost from the start but let her go at her own pace as forcing her would have probably put her off.

We didn't discuss it beforehand, but one night in a club we were swapped with another couple and I saw her rolling a condom onto her play-partner's cock and then climbing on to it. She said afterwards she was so turned on that she'd just gone for it. I fucked the guy's wife and we haven't looked back since. My advice is discuss it and say you'd like to go for a full swap, but let her go at her own pace.

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If the barrier comes from your female half, then you need to understand what her barrier is first. Maybe it's a fear that you may leave her? Maybe it's a fear that she may find someone better than you and may not want you as much anymore? What is it?

Conversation and honesty is everything in this lifestyle. Try to understand before trying to be understood.

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TOPIC: Would love to Cross over to Full Swap