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Ohmysugar,

Couldn't agree more. Our rule of thumb is 'never make a decision with an erection'! :-) Having said that, last time we were together with someone, the whole thing goes out the window! But it was cool and we knew going in it probably would progress past our 'limits'. Neither of us had any second thoughts. It is hard though (pun intended) sometimes. We understand that every couple and experience is different and 'limits' are guidelines, not written in stone. Steve

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That is definition too! Very well said :-}

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OUR definition is basically "Ladies Choice"... the girls can do whatever they please to one another, but the Mrs. is not interested in being with another man. Of course that's not the accepted or dictionary definition, but it's what works for us!

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For us, it includes everything up to oral minus the actual intercourse. People do have different meanings of soft swap though, so be sure to have a discussion prior to engaging in anything with anyone. This is not something you want to find out in the middle of things. That can ruin your day.....night.....relationship.....lol Have fun!

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A good soft swap with a hot couple who has their heads on straight, with all the rules and boundaries out in the open, can be amazing! Had a taste of that recently and LOVED it.

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Ditto again! ;)

Keep in mind, tho ~ while it's important to understand what terms mean to most people, what you're comfortable with doesn't have to be defined by terms. When it gets to the point that it's time to have the talk about everyone enjoys and what the boundaries are, ask about specifics.

Have fun!!

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Ditto what swinginpixie said.

Hebron CT
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Basically everything except vaginal or anal intercourse.

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