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TOPIC: Tame couples let's hear from you!
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We too are mostly "tame". We have full swapped in the long ago past but found it took something away from the flirting and playful fun because people just wanted to get right to it. Also, we made a couple of mistakes as far as the men were concerned and the Mrs. wondered why in the hell she did that. So now, we remain a soft swap couple and have enjoyed many scenarios that way but we do find that its mainly "new" couples that are soft and have quite a few hang ups which we wish would not exist. If we could find a more experienced soft swap couple that would be great. Let the relationship build then perhaps we would full swap with them too.

Eureka CA
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From one Wisconsinite to another, welcome to the forums, Beachside60!

Sheboygan Falls WI
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Just throwing this out there, if you never heard of the MX resorts of Temptations or Desires look them up. Great experiences to whatever level you want. Like always you make the rules for yourself.

Eau Claire WI
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Welcome to the forums davedenise, JJFunCpl88, tony458343, Sneakyfun354, WifeIsN2girls2! Wow, didn't realize how many others feel similar to the way we do. Enjoy yourselves and ask plenty of questions!

Like most folks here (at least on THIS thread) we only started looking on-line after trying (unsuccessfully) to find a single female. Some friends of ours suggested Soft-Swap but we soon found varying definitions of that designation as well. Our definition of TAME is and has always been "Ladies Choice" which means the ladies basically do whatever they want. Granted that isn't the accepted definition but that is what we are comfortable with. Unfortunately we have only found a handful of folks that share our definition and have only managed to build a friendship with even fewer; but then again we are not nor have we ever claimed to be swingers.

Fairview Heights IL
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Same here. We're a g/g play only couple and although this site would tecnically label us 'moderate' we say we're strictly tame to filter out those that dont read profiles and who are hoping out hope for more.

Can't really blame them though, my wife is smoking hot.

Chesterfield VA
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We just decided to try out the LS in the last month or so. Of course a FMF fantasy had always been there for me, but the wife decided she was tired of exploring her bi side at the strip club. We will probably never be interested in anything else but full contact between the girls, and the men joining in when the ladies want us. I (husband) honestly don't want to be in another woman, and she doesn't want another man in her. Everything else is fun and games depending on the right folks. We met some great folks locally and had a great time with them in our first couple weeks on SLS, and have our first area M&G this weekend. Hope we find more couple like the great folks we just hung out with. Bottom line for us is, Hard rules: no non-partner junk on junk crimes, always same room, and the ladies are in charge!

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Hey there :) We're very new to the lifestyle/site, and I guess we'd be considered tame. At least for now. It's been a little tough, as many of those who've contacted us seem to just want to dive right into full swap situations. We're trying to make some friends and get some experience before hitting the club/party scene, and so far we're only comfortable with some tame/moderate types of situations if they arise.

We've gotten some static that doing so 'really isnt swinging' and so forth, but are being patient and looking forward to whatever comes :)

Easton PA
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Ah, even the newbies have wisdom to share! Welcome to the fora, Tony!

Sheboygan Falls WI
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Although my wife and I have only been on SLS for a short time I can give some advice. If you meet someone who is to pushy don't try to convince them you do not want to go further just move on . The first 3 couple we met felt they needed to teach us about the life stile , our average time with these people was two minutes. The fourth couple we met have become close friends already and the only thing we do is play cards in our underwear. We may go further in the future we may not , the point is no pressure. Don't give up there are people out there whom you can have a good time with. Don't judge , but stick to your rules!

Duson LA
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? Other tame, but risque, couples in SE MI ?

Rochester Hills MI
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