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TOPIC: Tame couples let's hear from you!
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Hey there :) We're very new to the lifestyle/site, and I guess we'd be considered tame. At least for now. It's been a little tough, as many of those who've contacted us seem to just want to dive right into full swap situations. We're trying to make some friends and get some experience before hitting the club/party scene, and so far we're only comfortable with some tame/moderate types of situations if they arise.

We've gotten some static that doing so 'really isnt swinging' and so forth, but are being patient and looking forward to whatever comes :)

Easton PA
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Ah, even the newbies have wisdom to share! Welcome to the fora, Tony!

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Although my wife and I have only been on SLS for a short time I can give some advice. If you meet someone who is to pushy don't try to convince them you do not want to go further just move on . The first 3 couple we met felt they needed to teach us about the life stile , our average time with these people was two minutes. The fourth couple we met have become close friends already and the only thing we do is play cards in our underwear. We may go further in the future we may not , the point is no pressure. Don't give up there are people out there whom you can have a good time with. Don't judge , but stick to your rules!

Duson LA
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? Other tame, but risque, couples in SE MI ?

Rochester Hills MI
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Glad to see this topic. We are tame and seem to have trouble meeting other tame but risque friends. F is not interested in other men or women. M would flirt and might play with other women. Would like to hear from other tame couples.

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Krazy, I think it is worth a try. You probably could start by inviting all the tame or moderate couples in your area and list your event on the SLS event calendar. It may take a little time to get a good number of people attending regularly, but if you're consistent about time and place each month, more will probably come. You can also start a by-invitation-only group here to keep conversations rolling and semi-private.

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Welcome to the forums tlccouplehere! you guys seem to have a great outlook for getting started. Like you, we like to flirt and show some skin, but would only consider playing when we find that chemistry with the "right" couple.

krazycplpa, Meet-n-Greets are always a great idea especially when they're held @ someplace like a winery or restaurant as it takes the pressure off and gives folks other topics to talk about besides sex. Inevitably you will still encounter some more advanced couples (even in that setting) but as long as they are respectful of other's limits a good time should be had by all.

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we been thinking here about setting up somewhat of a M&G. This would be for us Softies to get together and talk and get to know others in the area. we know of a nice local place that has good food that we think would be a nice place to have it at. Plus it wouldnt cost anything but what you eat or drink. Upside to it, no pressure form others and just have nice time meeting others that have the same interests in all of this. Anyone have any thoughts on this?

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Welcome to the forums krazycplpa! I wish we could say what you're experiencing is the exception but unfortunately it's the norm. We've met all flavors of people from mild to wild as swingers are some of the most interesting people you could ever meet. Thanks why it's so frustrating that (more often than not) folks will only have anything to do with you if someone's getting laid. We realize that is the "ultimate goal" of the lifestyle but we'd like to get to know people along the way, in the hopes of establishing something repeatable and memorable.

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we are a tame couple here and still fairly new to this. reason being is i (M) have a tough time getting use to using condoms. anyway we have been on another site for alittle over a year , but have met 6 other couples. most of which didnt go so well but we live and learn. in this past year we have played with one couple in which we had fun. for us it had been tough finding others that are the same as us and does discourage us to continue. i guess time will tell if we go any farther with others. of all the clubs in our area they are for all the moderate to wild couples. so we can understand how you others feel about being tame and others saying its ok and they will help go to the next level. all in all i have chatted with nice people, but again sometimes we feel its going to be a bust in the end.

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