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we been thinking here about setting up somewhat of a M&G. This would be for us Softies to get together and talk and get to know others in the area. we know of a nice local place that has good food that we think would be a nice place to have it at. Plus it wouldnt cost anything but what you eat or drink. Upside to it, no pressure form others and just have nice time meeting others that have the same interests in all of this. Anyone have any thoughts on this?

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Welcome to the forums krazycplpa! I wish we could say what you're experiencing is the exception but unfortunately it's the norm. We've met all flavors of people from mild to wild as swingers are some of the most interesting people you could ever meet. Thanks why it's so frustrating that (more often than not) folks will only have anything to do with you if someone's getting laid. We realize that is the "ultimate goal" of the lifestyle but we'd like to get to know people along the way, in the hopes of establishing something repeatable and memorable.

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we are a tame couple here and still fairly new to this. reason being is i (M) have a tough time getting use to using condoms. anyway we have been on another site for alittle over a year , but have met 6 other couples. most of which didnt go so well but we live and learn. in this past year we have played with one couple in which we had fun. for us it had been tough finding others that are the same as us and does discourage us to continue. i guess time will tell if we go any farther with others. of all the clubs in our area they are for all the moderate to wild couples. so we can understand how you others feel about being tame and others saying its ok and they will help go to the next level. all in all i have chatted with nice people, but again sometimes we feel its going to be a bust in the end.

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You two sound a lot like us Scandle. When we used to attend lifestyle parties we were always up front and honest with folks we'd meet and always enjoyed ourselves whether we ended up meeting new people or not. We're tame and proud of it; it's what we're comfortable with. We just wish we could meet more people on our level.

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We're definitely moderate and most definitely not full swap or "wild," if you must. Without fail, whether it is through email or face-to-face meeting at a party, we always let the potential playmates know that this is our hard and fast rule. If they want more, then they'll need to keep searching, with no hard feelings on our part. No matter what, Mr. Scandle and I always enjoy our time together, even if we end up having sex without involving other people. That's just the way we roll!

We have never been accused of not being real swingers, though I'm sure if we were we would shrug our shoulders and move on to find someone else whose interests match ours.

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I dont know if were tame, but softies for sure. We have found plenty of interested people, most claiming they will take us to the next level. We always go at our own pace.

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I don't think you'll have any trouble being 'tame'. Play to your own level, you should only do what you are comfortable with. When we have encountered others that accuse us of not being 'wild' enough for them we move on. Enjoy the lifestyle at your own pace!

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We are going to find out this week. We'll be going out with a couple from SLS that we met with this past week. We did nothing but go to dinner and have a couple of wines, but we really hit it off. It could get a bit frisky so we'll see how it goes.

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Just thought we'd toss this out there as Tame couples seem to be few and far-between. But we were wondering what kind of experiences Tame couples are having and if they find it (too) difficult to remain tame in this environment???

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