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we are tame, enjoy erotica and friendly people. most think we are too tame. It is hard for us to find. Desire was great - very friendly, very accepting of whatever our choices were. Naked people tend to be very friendly. headed from Michigan to San Diego in RV

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Agreed!! FS is the point of no return. However, once you (both) are OK with FS, the options open up (did I really say that??). It was like lifting the rules, No kissing, no oral, no intercourse. Go ONLY where you are both OK with. The time may come when you are ready to take it further.

NEVER do anything that you aren't ready for. The last thing you want (as a couple, or individual), is regret. We have both made (minor) mistakes, but no real regrets.

Leominster MA
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Good for you Susanswild, F/S is a "point of no return" but it sounds like you're proceeding at a pace that's comfortable for you both! Hopefully the L/S is kinder to you than it was to us.

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We are just wading into the warm waters...love what we have done, and enjoy the holding back...working ourselves up for each other...we would be ok with fs with the right couple, but it's clearly a point of no turning back...

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I cannot begin to say how erotic it has been reading these posts. We may need to revisit the finer aspects of erotica. Thanks for sharing !!

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I should probably update our status in this thread to say we've gone far beyond soft swapping now and thoroughly enjoyed it. Bed post notches will never be our thing but with people we click with (and it's been an interesting journey finding out who we do click with. Slightly different body types appeal with the right personality than we'd originally thought), full swap has become great fun. That said soft swap still works for us too in certain situations.

It continues to be an interesting and fun journey for us with a lot more yet to explore. :)

West Gardiner ME
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We find it hard to break into the groups that are already established. Once we get through that wall that glass ceiling maybe get excepted then maybe they will allow us to approach them without them being afraid of us. Some of us want to start as friends and work the rest out later.

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"Admittedly that limits the number of folks that would be interested in us, but there again if they're not interested in treating us like people it's no big loss anyway."

Who aren't treating you like people?

Though we personally won't go out with you because we're not interested in just tame activities, we will still treat you two the way we treat normal strangers. When we decline, we say no, thank you. Did someone treat you badly because you won't do full swap?

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Well said Tipsyatis, we prefer NOT to "dive right in" as we'd rather "wade in" to a level that is comfortable for us; problem is most folks won't even give us the chance to get to know us. We're just looking for a chance to enhance an already incredible sex life, but in order to do so we have to know, trust and respect the folks we're sharing the most intimate portion of our relationship with. Mrs. twonluv has no interest whatsoever in being with another man which suits me just fine. Admittedly that limits the number of folks that would be interested in us, but there again if they're not interested in treating us like people it's no big loss anyway.

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Rawhidexx,

That sounds really hot and you're right that sex is just sex. It doesn't define your love for each other or your commitment to each other. That's why we're in this lifestyle. But we do understand that some people aren't ready for full swap and nobody should push them to go all the way until everyone's ready. Drama and regret have no place here. People should go with the slowest one in the group and everyone must be comfortable with whatever the group is doing.

Our first experience was with another guy for a 3some and we went soft first. After everyone was comfortable with everything, we scheduled another weekend for a full and we did have a blast, which led to us being full swap now

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