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Were new to the lifestyle and tame. But find it very hard to find other soft couples. Or couples who respect that you are tame an try to pressure you to go further without even meeting first. We had a great meet with a couple we had meet before so we set up a day to bbq an hang out an see where it may go then 2 days before the date we get a message about everything full swap that they were looking forward to having the knowledge that were not full swap. An at that point they called off the meet. Wow turned us off right away this was going to be our 1st try at some fun. Glad we never meet for that date. There like yeah we dont mind soft tame couples we also want to make friends to get together with offten. What fakes We need to meet true people like us who aren't liers . Or their should be a link for tame soft couples ONLY.

Genoa City WI
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Sad part is when boundaries are set , some think they can take the advantage when in the Heat of the Moment. So now we strictly stay at the Clubs for now. We have even been to some BDSM events and the guest there abide by set rules. We play a little in that Fetish with each other,but we can't have sex at the end of our play. Around us most BDSM clubs don't allow it, so that's why we go to Life style clubs. For both of us it's this, we like watching all kinds of Kinky stuff get worked up and Horny. But she only wants my Cock and I only want her Pussy. We both have had enough strange in our life to know what we want. When we play in front of others. It's our way of giving back the energy we got from watching.

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I hope a word from a single who respects and enjoys soft-swap with couples will not be considered inappropriate. I only want to reassure "tame" couples that there are singles, at least one for sure (LOL), who embrace and thoroughly enjoy no-intercourse play with sensual people. The fun of meeting, playing and intimacy can still be wildly erotic and fulfilling. Whether it is part of a couple's evolution on the way to full-swap, or simply their plateau and comfort zone, the mfm and mff combinations are still available and HOT even if we label it "tame".

Fairfax VA
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Excellent advice again Scandle; you're as wise are you are classy! Nothing against the full-swap or more advanced couples, but it has been our experience that Soft-Swap couples are more akin to what we're looking for (get to know each other first and then let things progress naturally). We have to know, trust and respect the folks we're opening to being intimate with and don't feel there is a deadline for getting to know someone.

We used to have no problem meeting folks and making friends no matter what their preference or experience level is, but after encountering so many phonies, rude and crass people we've begun to pull back from the L/S. "Sometimes, the best way to find something is to stop looking for it!"

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HavingFunTogether, you can define soft swap in whatever way you want to. Our definition, which includes everything except penis/vagina intercourse, may allow much more than you two are comfortable doing. It doesn't matter what anyone else says it is. Follow your own desires and heart.

If you are full swap and are interested in a soft swap couple, just ask them what kinds of things they like to do with or around another couple. No biggy, usually, unless they are uncomfortable talking about sex. You (or another full swap couple contacting you) may find you (or they) enjoy just soft swap from time to time.

Sheboygan Falls WI
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Soft Swap? Please define it for us, with other couples.

My first wife and I have a experience with a couple we met on the nude beach at Hedonism 30 years ago. They lived eleven miles from us and we met for several years.

Is Soft Swap exchanging just straight oral?

Thornton CO
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Both of us more than fine with parties, GB's or single guys or girls. Haven't played with a couple yet and we are thinking soft to start out is the way to start. We have had zero issues to this point and everything has been positive, we want to keep it that way.

We had rules for me on our first 3some which was a girl. Seems logical to go slow for the first couple thing.

Allentown PA
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We wish that SLS had a section or search for soft swap couples. Sometimes that is an option we enjoy. Anyone in Texas interested?

Cedar Park TX
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Me and my wife are"Tame" in the aspic of the lifestyle. We both have had multi-partners in past some didn't end well. Got really complicated. Any how we both are very sexual beings. We do pretty much anything except sharing and touching. We fill its an energy thing. We love being in a room full of sexy people having all kinds of sex. We watch and we like to be watched. I love having sex with her,then see someone watching,then they are pleasuring themselves as they watch. We are both comfortable with these boundaries right now. Who knows what the future will hold. But for us we are a couple of horny Wiccan's,but physical contact is special stuff for us.

Mesquite TX
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I think I would love to experience you style of tame play first "hand" C4F.

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