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Happy to be your friend NoFun. Whatever your version or first attempts at Soft Swing are, all that is really necessary is you communicate them. In advance! And anyone who doesn't respect them, you don't want to be with anyway.
PS Poly, thanks. You wouldn't believe the e-mail I just got. But it's too far off this topic so I am going to speak to it in a different thread. Although it very much ties into this thread, it crosses over to others. Acceptance and diversity Part III? Going to name it something else just to be diverse. |
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Nofun,
there seems to be a differing opinion on what soft swing is if you speak to swingers. Many feel it is anything but intercourse. Many think it is heavy petting followed by same room but with your partner sex. Another option, to those who truly embrace the to each there own concept, is some people start with absolutely nothing but voyeurism. What's the right answer? Whatever you think the right answer is................:-) |
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It would never occur to us to disrespect a soft swap couple's boundaries. If I wanted disrespect or to give it, I would have married the guy I dated before Jim. I've never understood why a lifestyle dedicated to pleasure occassionallycrosses rude lines. For instance, I adore Polygrl but we'd never hit on them because we're not within their preferences. But I still love to talk orchid, cats, or whatever a topic is with her. Is it security or insecurity that cause people to push for something unwanted?
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As far as soft swap goes, we've tried it and it wasn't for us. We are full swap couple. We see nothing wrong with it, and feel that if thats how far you want to go, more power to you. You shouldn't be pressured to do anything that you don't want to.
The only thing that we ask of people is when viewing our profile, please pay attention to the part that says full swap only. Too often we get couples who are into soft swap only and they waste our time emailing/chatting just to find out that its not what we're looking for. |
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Either one works for us.
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Last weekend I had to be in a soft situation in what normally would have been hard....The fellow I was with didn't know that initially when we started..he began stimulating me way before it was really proper sitting on the sofa before dinner but he had me flying all evening.
He didn't mind no penetration could happen but we enjoyed other ways......and I found it very satisfying! |
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What are your feelings on soft swap?
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