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Hopefully you all wont mind me interjecting an observation/opinion?I am a single male,and part of a couple,we are primarily FS but will SS because we dont believe in pressuring people beyond their own comfort boundaries.Some of the best friendships we have are with people we SS with.But my question is,why is FS ok,SS,ok,Bifems both single and cpls are ok.But everyone says Single MALES have no place in swinging? Arent we an ALTERNATIVE LIFESTYLE? If you are comfortable SS only I/we will accomodate, but what about the HOT WIFE people,They arent swingers either? Just my thoughts.Live and let live people,we are ALL birds of the same feather here.Peace out,Joe

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we love soft swap it works well 4 us , if i wanna get screwed my hubby does a fine job of it , oral sex is the best and have met some awsome cpls that were just fine with it , we havent had any complaints and if u dont like us cause were soft swap well we probably truely werent missing out on meeting u lol , were in this 4 fun and to meet cool cpls and we have, lucky us , thanks

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Why isn't there a "fullswing" forum? LOL!

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Your way of thinking sounds like something out of "high school"

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L,

Where is that Diversity & Acceptance part III post?

-M

Going to do it shortly Poly under what thread or new, I don't know. Need to see if there's an appropriate one! Also getting ready to write you to ask something first. L

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Kittinthebear, well put, great post, Thanks for your comments...hope you don't mind me using some of your words in other forums we are on...Thanks again

Destin FL
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Very well put,Kittinthebear!

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Happy to be your friend NoFun. Whatever your version or first attempts at Soft Swing are, all that is really necessary is you communicate them. In advance! And anyone who doesn't respect them, you don't want to be with anyway.

PS Poly, thanks. You wouldn't believe the e-mail I just got. But it's too far off this topic so I am going to speak to it in a different thread. Although it very much ties into this thread, it crosses over to others. Acceptance and diversity Part III? Going to name it something else just to be diverse.

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Nofun, there seems to be a differing opinion on what soft swing is if you speak to swingers. Many feel it is anything but intercourse. Many think it is heavy petting followed by same room but with your partner sex. Another option, to those who truly embrace the to each there own concept, is some people start with absolutely nothing but voyeurism. What's the right answer? Whatever you think the right answer is................:-)

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It would never occur to us to disrespect a soft swap couple's boundaries. If I wanted disrespect or to give it, I would have married the guy I dated before Jim. I've never understood why a lifestyle dedicated to pleasure occassionallycrosses rude lines. For instance, I adore Polygrl but we'd never hit on them because we're not within their preferences. But I still love to talk orchid, cats, or whatever a topic is with her. Is it security or insecurity that cause people to push for something unwanted?

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