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TOPIC: Soft swinging makes us feel
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What are your feelings on soft swap?

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Like something is missing

Princeton NJ
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What are your feelings on soft swap?

Probably something I should check off my fuck-it list one of these days so I can at least comment on it.

Dayton OH
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"Soft swinging makes us feel..."

TEASED!

No way am I going to lick a pussy that I'm not allowed to fuck when I'm done.

Hilliard OH
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Soft play is wonderful and we love it. It is so erotic to tease, flirt, kiss, touch, taste and dress for another couple where intercourse is off the table. Respecting someone's boundaries is always the right thing to do and really at the end of the night don't we all go home with our spouses anyway? I would rather have great sex with my spouse while talking about the hot couple we had just been with than to "take one for the team" and be less than thrilled with the arrangement. What's the rush to full anyway....if it comes then it was ment to be. Never say never .... Right?

Monarch Beach CA
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I've found soft swap to be extremely erotic. Almost teasing, delayed cumming, slow rebuilding after cumming can make for a really great experience.

Downey CA
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Soft Swap Play is Everything except Intercourse which puts Us both right into Our Comfort Zone. I can not get Hard for Anyone Other than My Wife. My Wife feels that Intercourse is sacred and as of now She says She only wants Me. I think that Soft Swap/Voyeurism is a great way to allow More People to enjoy the Lifestyle without having intercourse with Other People.

Columbia MD
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We've played with soft swap couples a few times. It's fun but we really prefer full swap. Kinda hard to downshift once things get rolling. With one new to the lifestyle couple, they invited us over & said they preferred soft swap which we were fine with. Once things got going really hot, they threw caution to the wind & went for it. LOL! It was their idea :D

Princeton NJ
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When on starts in the LS, how many are comfortable saying yeah go ahead and fuck some one else. Like all things in life; you proceed at a comfortable speed and level for all involved. We are LT , married couple we know where we have been. This is enhancement not replacement of what we have. Stick to your guns, those who push you to do more then your comfortable with are not the ones you seek. Patience is rewarded!!!!

L&E

Streamwood IL
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like the way you think tusconred. keep rockin' em!

Orlando FL
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...appreciated!! It's been our experience that soft-swap couples prefer to get to know us and develop a friendship. Quite frankly that's the only way we can let go and enjoy ourselves, with people we know, trust & respect!

Fairview Heights IL
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TOPIC: Soft swinging makes us feel