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TOPIC: Soft swap and straight, is there such a person
Created by: nextdoorneighbor
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We have been searchign high adn low for a couple who would describe them selves as soft swap and straight. we are looking for erotic encounters without exchanging bodily fluids is that too much. sre we in the wrong place?

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we are in the same boat as you all are. Very limited soft swap & straight.

We have had a lot of luck in clubs. We are able to fool around with each other while the others are doing their thing.

Just a thought...

New Albany IN
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Thanks jm. The same is true for you guys. Very pretty lady.

Orlando FL
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Mr. JK:

You have an excellent profile. It gives a detailed description of you guys and what you are looking for. It is an example for others. And BTW, JK, your lady is quite sexy.

To Everyone:

Some people on here think that they will do well with something brief for their profile. But a short profile gives no glimpse of your personality let alone your wants and desires.

This is especially true if you are looking for soft swap. As you have a very distinct boundary you don't want to cross, you need to be informative and clear. The more you describe yourselves and what you are looking for, the better chance you have of finding it.

Mr. JM

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you may be limiting yourself more than you need to. as jm mentioned, a lot of couples with bi ladies are happy to play "straight" if your lady prefers it that way. you'll often find those are the "bi curious" ladies. in our experience, most of the "bi" ladies are here largely because they are into women... so to speak. we have often found them to be more aggressive and some are as bad as overly aggressive males. for that reason k is a little skiddish about going out with a couple who lists their female as "bi".

MOST, however, will respect your boundaries. you may be passing up some couples you would have a lot of fun with.

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Hi there Next...

There are many couples on here who are soft-swap. You list yourselves as straight and in your profile mention the possibility of lady to lady interaction. It's a bit contradictory.

Many couples who list a bi or bi curious lady will play completely straight, if that is your limit. The biggest issue is just finding people who are real, will be compatible at your level; either that's where they are or they will 'play down' for you.

Be patient. Send out emails and answer those that come to you. Try some SLS affiliated parties in your area.

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I can tell you this, if u were close to us we would have already tried to meet you. We love the social aspect. We would be very happy to meet people who just want to flirt all night.

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I can tell you this, if u were close to us we would have already tried to meet you. We love the social aspect. We would be very happy to meet people who just want to flirt all night.

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We have been searchign high adn low for a couple who would describe them selves as soft swap and straight. we are looking for erotic encounters without exchanging bodily fluids is that too much. sre we in the wrong place?

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