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In many ways soft swing is more erotic than full swap...we are never in a hurry to get there to fuck the other people so we spend more time on the foreplay and tend to have alot more communication, spoken or not.

Destin FL
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Excellent Dancenaked, you get a gold star and special licks!

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Irish, the right couple could be one you have been with a few times and really hit it off, it could be you are hedging your bet so as not to be rushed, or they are so hot to you you cannot stand it and just have to...lol

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"i see some put in there profiles and on this forum here that if the right couple come along maybe we would do full swap .. what is the "right" couple?"

Good question.

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Akron, go mess with jim...lol

The most common definition in the Lifestyle for Soft Swinging is:

The term used to describe same-room sex, watching/being watched, or any sexual encounter up to, but not including intercourse, with someone other than your spouse. The first experience for many couples is some type of soft-swinging

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Soft swing is everything but intercourse with others, oral sex, touching, kissing, everything is OK, so now given that, you just need to decide what you will and will not do, explain it to others then go have fun.

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I think it all boils down to communicating what your boundaries are in meeting face to face or whatever means you us in first connecting with a couple. I think where the problems arises is when the couple is vague in expressing what their limitations are for the fear of not playing or their inability to express themselves clearly.

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We're one of those that didn't specify for that very reason, only to find that the expectation was that we were a full swap couple exclusively, which isn't necessarily true. By advertising that we're soft swing, with the potential for full with the "right couple" alleviates the uncomfortable situation of having to "throttle back" a couple in the heat of the moment if we're not quite ready for the full-on action, yet doesn't take us completely out of the running for any potential full swap stuff.

Wow.. That was some pretzel logic there.

Bottom line, we explain it in our profile.

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HMMM...do you like ropes or chains, a board or a tire in your swing?

Destin FL
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We're 4s. I'm shocked. We thought we were light weight softees... Go figure.

We love the tease. We're exhibitionists and voyeurs. We just haven't reached the comfort level with anyone couple to go "full".

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