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The only issue we see i that most of YOU ALL aren't in our area lol! Seriously, we're new to the lifestyle, and soft swap is what works for us. I am VERY outspoken, so when we encounter a full swap couple that is semi-rude, (being that no one has ever outright been an ass to us), we just keep it moving. I don't have time to waste, and if we can't even have a civil conversation in an e-mail or chat, we KNOW that we won't mesh in person!

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Voyeuristics, Welcome to the forums and the lifestyle. We hope you have as much fun as we do. M & T

Tampa FL
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We once had a couple that contacted us express dismay when we pointed out their profile emphasized full swap and we did not go there. They indicated that they felt we were not "real swingers" and proceeded to become quite rude. We blocked them, but kept their name handy.

If my in-laws ever become aware of our little hobby I figure it might be nice to be able to put them in touch so they can explain that we are not really swinging.

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We can echo the same sentiments of the OP. Although we enjoy a wide variety of activities, full swap is not yet one of them... and may never be, but we enjoy ourselves at our level. We respect the bounds of others and expect the same in return. Unfortunately we have had a few rude situations, the most recent of which at a lifestyle hotel party when the male half of another couple asked us if we were full swap. We politely said 'no, that we enjoy a lot of other things'. He then proceeded to loudly proclaim "what the hell are you doing here then?". Needless to say, we exited stage right and went on our merry way. And as we returned to our room with another 'tame' couple for some adventure later that evening.... rude boy was still standing in the hall all by himself. Check...and Mate.....

Richmond VA
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Shelly... you educated babe... Not just the Puritans, but as you know, the lifestyle, too. We all want to be able to be what we want to be. But do we tolerate and work with the others who have a different vision, or do we put them down?

Your point is a bullseye, as usual. Some folks get a certain perspective. They assume that all others should join them. But, one size does not fit all.

All The best To All,

Mr. JM

Greenville SC
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Oh right My bad..... that is a bad word even if it is only a Three letter word

Burlingham NY
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ummm....thats "mature" school lol


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Wow Shelly, going all kinds of Real OLD school on that answer............ I salute you with a golf clap

Burlingham NY
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true. remember however, that the puritans left England in search of religious freedom...then became 10 times more exclusionary than the church of England itself. There is nothing new under the sun :0).


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We have no problem meeting people and making friends no matter what their preference or experience level is, but more often than not we are contacted by Full Swap (Moderate to Wild) couples, who are downright rude when we ask them up front to respect our boundaries as a Soft-Swap couple. We've even been told (by another soft-swap couple) that we're "doing it wrong". For a "lifestyle" based on acceptance and diversity, some folks sure do see this in absolutes...

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