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Thanks!

We love soft swingers, they make for great pillows.

Duke

Soft swap with you two anytime.

The only people you have to satisfy is yourselves."

Absolutely!!!!

Kory,

The only people you have to satisfy is yourselves. You are not here to fit into anyone else's idea of a good time. Stay true to what you want and have fun. Never compromise and never make a decision with an erection!!!! :-) (Cute but true!)
We've had our share of put downs but by and large most people are willing to go at our speed and we have had some extremely hot times!
We would soft swap with you two in a heartbeat!!

Have fun and be safe!
S&D

Thanks, we know what are into and what we are not. We have met some cool people on the site and have enjoyed their company. We are planning on checking some of the local clubs just to check out the vibe. Thanks again for all the info. We respect the lifestyle and enjoy the lifestyle.

We are full, soft, non, swappers all in one. We are willing to go full swap with a few select singles and couples, but not with all we meet. Some people we meet, we are only interested in soft swap, and some people we have become friends only. Of course there are always the assholes. What would the world be without them? We enjoy all aspects of the lifestyle, the quality of meeting open honest people, and we detest our vanilla, uppity, dishonest, sneaking around, judgemental so called friends. This is about having fun, good adult fun, not just fucking someone else. Our opinion anywho!

Take your time Kory. You only have to worry about each other, not what somebody else thinks you should be doing. There are plenty of soft swap couples (and singles...lol) so stay true to what YOU want and go at your own pace.

In case no has done so yet, let me welcome you to the forum.

Enjoy!

A

We are new to the lifestyle and haven't had much luck. We've been invited to a few parties which we really would like to attend but when we let them know we are not into full swap we quickly get uninvited. lol We dont have anything against full swap couples its just that we are new and dont want to just jump right into full swap. We are cool with same room no swap and maybe female/female play. Its kind of crazy how some try to get you into full swap even before meeting.

The only issue we see i that most of YOU ALL aren't in our area lol! Seriously, we're new to the lifestyle, and soft swap is what works for us. I am VERY outspoken, so when we encounter a full swap couple that is semi-rude, (being that no one has ever outright been an ass to us), we just keep it moving. I don't have time to waste, and if we can't even have a civil conversation in an e-mail or chat, we KNOW that we won't mesh in person!