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TOPIC: No love from Full Swappers!
Created by: BriJam
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Too many times we have been turned down by Full Swappers and usually they are the ones that contacted us. Our profile is very clear. Some even are rude about it. I actually had to edit my profile before because apparently I insulted Full Swappers too. Hey I don't mind their preference but we're not rude to anyone for wanting to Full Swap. Can other Soft Swappers share their frustration or experiences?

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We noticed the under served soft swap community and did something about it. All Tame and Moderate couples are welcome to join our group Something Left to Desire.... Currently we have 175 couples and single women who think just like us. Reach out to us if you'd like to discuss it, or just request to join the group!!!

The Smiths.

Fredericksburg VA
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I have been contacted by a few SS, but have politely declined them thus far. The strangest thus far is actually quite humorous:

A very pretty lady (gal half of a couple) contacted me about SS. She was so hot that rather than decline right away I asked for more information about how she defined SS. I expected non-penetration, of course. But here were the rules:

-no penetration (got it)

-oral both ways (wife-me), BUT wife is "grossed out by" semen, so I'd have to "finish on my own." This meant not only no "swallow/spit" and therefore no CIM, but also ZERO contact of ejaculate with her body in any way.

?????

All this, and they were about and hour's drive away. So I would be, I suppose, expected to go "finish up" in the bathroom. Or would there have been Kleenex for me to finish into? Wow.

I was very polite and kind, and asked none of the above questions of her, out of kindness. But my honest thought was that this gal had some serious "issues" to have these mandates, and yet apparently wish to participate in the LS in some manner.

What say you?

Spartanburg SC
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Our decision to be only soft swap has nothing to do with jealousy. It's my comfort level. I've been with the same guy for over 30 years. I don't want anyone else screwing me. My choice. And he's the same way with other women. We have only in the last year decided to try this lifestyle. At this point, I don't see either of us changing our minds. Our sex life has been fan-freakin-tastic for decades. We just got a little curious about swinging a bit. This is our experience, so we choose our own path.

Acworth GA
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I bet man. Hell sing anyway you want to

Charlie

Fort Myers FL
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LOL! Coug. We get that a lot :D

Princeton NJ
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@Tom. Hey dude to bad your name isn't Jack lol..,but it is to bad Mine isn't Brad Pitt LOL

Charlie

Fort Myers FL
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Not all, but think a lot of SS couples have insecurity or jealousy issues that prevents full swap. Also some male halves seem to have trouble "Rising to the occasion".

Princeton NJ
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Yeah I'm not SS but we get hit up all the time by SS. We even took a couple well two couples up on it. I guess the hubby" couldn't take it when they realized I was going to stick my Cock in their wife. The girls didn't say no or try to stop me so I got laid. The girls were ready but the hubby's not. God bless a woman that wants to fuck someone beside their husband. Where would whores like me be

Charlie

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My girl and I are fairly new to the lifestyle and are soft swap only, although we reserve the right to change our mind. She says she doesn't know if she can handle watching me inside another woman. I respect that. We also have a no kissing rule between male & female other than ourselves. She wants it that way and I respect that as well. We recently able to experience a 6-sum soft swap and it was an awesome experience. We enjoy watching as well as being watched. We haven't been with anyone yet that has full swapped, but I think that's coming. All we can hope is that they will respect our boundaries. We state very plainly in our profile what we like, and expect others to respect them. So far it's worked out fine. We emailed one couple, and they didn't really state that they were full swap only, but they politely let us know that in their reply. Each to his own. Variety is the spice of life as they say.

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We've wondered how much our being soft swap only has limited our contacts. Honestly - which would you prefer, watching someone have sex in the bed beside you or sitting at home, watching TV? I'd pick the sex, especially as crazy as we tend to get. Seems like around here, it's full swap or nothing but crickets.

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TOPIC: No love from Full Swappers!