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TOPIC: New to life style
Created by: gottatry
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New to life style. Just wandering about others experience. How you get started? And how long did it take until your first experience?

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G&C, welcome!

This will be incomprehensible to some people, but we love having sex with each other on the same bed as others. It is such a turn on, it's like live porn in front of you. Granted we have gone past this point but if that is what someone wanted to do and we were with them, it would be cool with us.

We went through some frustrating times before our first encounter and are experiencing some again now. (People who love to email but either aren't real or do not have the ability to come out and say they are not interested.) Keep looking. There are plenty of couples on the same level, you will find them. As sexy as Chrissy is, there shouldn't be much problem.

Steve

Wexford PA
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Although we've never considered ourselves "in the lifestyle" we've been subscribers of SLS since 2004. We've yet to have our first experience, but neither us or our small group of friends are ones to push the issue. Within the confines of our group of trusted friends we prefer to let things happen naturally, sometime we just get together for dinner and drinks but all of us feel perfectly comfortable contacting the other couples for a "Play date" if everyone's up for it!

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we got started on this site in january 2011. we'd gone to new orleans for the MLK weekend and went to collette's. we were hooked after that. we both played with other people, soft and full swap. i found this site the second we got back. we knew we were going in this direction after after playing around in several vanilla situations and seeing how much we enjoyed the reactions of others. once we got on the site and actually started to hear from couples instead of all the single males that covered us up, we met people, went to a hotel party, one club. we had some successes and some failures. we're still learning. we believe that if we keep it at, we'll eventually reach our goal of having a few single men we play with regularly, a few single women we play with, (she wants a girlfriend), and couples throughout the country that we can play with whenever we are close by. sometimes it's discouraging...at least so far. people not showing up, people you really like not being interested in you, being able to figure out that someone isn't who they say. it's kept me from meeting people on my own because i didn't want them to think i was one of those liars we were coming across. but it seems that for every connection that doesn't come through, there's someone else that is interested in meeting you. hope this helps...the perspective from a newbie that wants to fuck a lot.

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We got started on this site in December 2010 and had a very frustrating start. So many people who talked and talked but forced you to be a stalker to actually meet. So, so many fakes, so, so many broken promises.

Then finally a spontaneous meet and greet with another couple only to find he hadn't told his wife we were coming and he gropes my wife all though dinner explaining it was 'to loosen up his wife'. Please don't piss on me and tell me it's raining. Then, next day say they only want to get together with my wife because I'm too hairy and would it be OK if I just watched?

We had literally decided one night to stop contacting all the deadbeats on our 'friends' list and delte them (which we did) and the very next day we got a mail from another couple, met them that night and have been having the fucking times of our lives ever since! We have a huge crush on them and have throroughly blown through our original 'rules'! I think, I mean I know, we were very lucky to hit it off so well in and out of the bedroom.

All we can say is good luck and keep on trying. Our new rule is the third time a couple tells us 'Sounds great. let's get together', we cross them off the list, make a note of it and move on. Good luck, Steve

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Kat, Yes we have been on since 2007 mostly just as voyeurs, attended a few lifestyle clubs, met very nice people but usually just ended up going home and having hot passionate sex. But now we know it's time to venture out from being watchers to being participants.

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Gottatry, great post and if anyone that lives near us can assist us as well?

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You live nearby so I can tell you there are several clubs close to you that would be a great start and if you aren't comfortable taking that step yet, I can recommend a couple of groups that host meet & greets with a lot of nice, fun people. I would be happy to be your tour guide!

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New to life style. Just wandering about others experience. How you get started? And how long did it take until your first experience?

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