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I like getting to know people. All kinds. That's why I go to clubs. I mainly swing soft but it didn't click as to why...until some of the comments where posted below. I cut my teeth on being sexual with strangers years ago. I've had my fill. I could only be sexual with so many people before it became repeative and boring.

Fixing the boredom involved getting to know folks, doing things other than being sexual, and relaxing in clubs. I really enjoy helping others to feel good. I enjoy massages, intelligent discussion, and Kink.

I suspect that's why some folks go from full to soft. I really enjoy watching people with an established connection, exchange energy. You can feel it. I'm not against full swap...I'm not. It's just the feverish goal it once was.

Mischief.

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You just never know who's out here.

Center Valley PA
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LOL How funny is that. We started posting in another forum and ended up running into someone that my hubby went to school with.

Carrie

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It is indeed Carrie, we even saw our neighbors post in the Forum, lol.

Center Valley PA
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I have been haunting the Texas Forum for some time now. Glad they expanded the forums so we can mingle with everyone! Funny how small the world is.

Carrie

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Hi Carie...darn SAV is a lucky guy...Maybe he should come over to this site...LOL Good to see you here...F

Destin FL
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No, but SAV can grab my butt!!

Carrie

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Newtothis, I bet you do that sometimes, but only when they are ready...I would doubt you would ever pressure others...right?

We have seen people in the Lifestyle for years go back to soft. You know not all softies want or need to full swap...the reasons are many and varied... lots are individual decisions. We are happy where we are and don't see ourselves changing some of us are even well adjusted...LOL

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Newtoothis....I hope you're just making light hearted comments, and that's cool for a forums as this. However, having been in this 20+ years, some of us softies have come full circle, being on the soft side doesn't necessarily mean that we are newbies and just waiting for someone to bring us up a level, so to speak. Maybe we've learned a thing or two, at least for us.

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We feel that there is nothing wrong with soft swingers, everyone has their own comfort zone, but we look at it as a challenge also, could we be the ones who help convert soft swingers into full swap, you'll never know until you get together with them!

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