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Everyone has thier own definition of what soft swing and full swing is. You can not make people use the definitions you want them too. If you don't want to play email tag then explain to the people up front what you are looking for and if they are not into it then move on.

Carrie

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It's very interesting to see the different"definitions" of "softswing",maybe that is why there is so much "e-mail tag" on this site.There is basically 4 categories of "swinging",Fullswing,softswing,bi-sexual/curious,and voyeurism/exhibitionism.Fullswing=complete exchange of partners,softswing= exchange of partners,no intercourse,bi-sexual/curious=looking to play w/same sex,and voy/exhibit.=having sex in front of others or watching.Each category having several variations,1)ea. cpl's set of rules and/or a variation of another category(e.g. softswing w/ bi-sexual female)Basically it comes down to communication betw. you and the cpl. you are interacting with.Would be nice if they had some kind of scale to add to your profile(e.g. number coded,Phoenix1929=1,3,5 ,1=softswing,3=bi-sexual woman,5= voy/exhibit)might help w/the e-mail process if all were on the same page,so to speak! Gary

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We are a soft swap couple, and we think that soft play for us bi girl play, and intercourse only between spouses. Soft was the best definition that describes what we are into. We tell everyone up front, and repeatedly our rules. This works great for us, it weeds out the bad encounters and only leaves the positive ones.

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I must confess my lack of knowledge here, and that is the real nuts and bolts definition of soft swap vs. hard swap, or full swap. I thought soft swap was just haiving sex with your significant other in the same room as another couple, i didn't know it was a girl/girl thing. We would like to begin with soft swap, as i described it, am curious about being with a woman, but don't know how soon i want to do that, want to begin slowly and progress, but not offend anyone. so, please tell me either here, or please send an email to us thru here. Thank you.

Frankfort IL
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Frank,

I don't know. Maybe should could get some people over here to do her bet. I know I am not that strong. LOL

Carrie

Corpus Christi TX
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That's an unuaual name for sure !

Center Valley PA
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BTW, where is the "Fudge Momma" that is going to try and be "celibate" for 30 days...LOL

Destin FL
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I hope he has plenty of Christmas Crack for everyone!

Carrie

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OK, someone invite SAV over to "spout off" some of his "wisdom's"

Destin FL
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We take each adventure for what it is. In some situations soft is just as satisfying for us and then there are others that full is most satisfying because it helps us fulfill whatever our current fantasy is.

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