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TOPIC: Is there a site for watchers
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I love to watch but Mrs. Naughty has no interst in it. She likes action just not into voyeurism. At least be honest with folks if that is what your into.

Just saying this for anyone interested in a experience we had one night. We met a single guy at a club and Naughty really liked him so she asked if he wanted to play. He said yes and started telling her things he wanted to do to her. We get a room and start going at it but he couldn't get hard no matter what she did. I noticed everytime she and i started playing he would go to the edge of the bed and just watch. Then i noticed he had an erection which i pointed out to my wife. As soon as she started to give him attention it went flat as a pancake. She tryed for over a hour with no success and finally he just left. She was so upset thinking she did something wrong till i told her he was a voyeur and she was fine. It would have been nice to have known this before he ruined our evening.

But we learned another lesson that night and its all part of the journey.

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thanks

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To Doc& Janine and south of here,

Don't give up and don't try too hard. Attend parties where you will be welcome. Go to the 'events' list and email the people throwing the party, explain your preferences and ask if you would be welcome there. We have been told 'no' and moved on. We have had extremely rude responses too, telling us we would 'never be welcome' and we were 'ruining' the lifestyle, but we moved on. Since then we have had some extremely erotic experiences by following the above strategy.

Just last weekend we went to a party and even though we are 'moderate' and engage in lots of oral with others, we ended up at a 'full swap' party and everyone there respected our wishes. At one point a gentlemen was receiving oral from my wife and politely asked if he could approach her other end and I simply said we weren't ready for that and he was totally cool. We had a great time, each of us engaging with at least 4 other people before we left at 4am.

Go to the clubs, even if it is a drive. Make a weekend of it, if you can. Even though you may not actually get someone to watch or watch you, we have found it is always such a sexually charged atmosphere that we have a great time. At the very least you will have great sex with each other. And do remember, if you see someone you know (which we have), hey, it's mutually assured destruction. They aren't going to say they saw you at a swinger's club. Plus, most clubs have an 'open door' policy so there should be no problem watching or being watched. Just make sure before you go.

And beware people on these forums too. There is one guy in particular who likes to come on to the "Soft Swinger' forums and just cause as much trouble as he can and then say he was only joking, or 'just trying to understand'. He is clearly here for the sole purpose of deriding and denigrating what he doesn't like to make you feel somehow 'broken' for not 'getting it'. That is just a fact of being on the tame/moderate side, but again, move on. We all step in shit every now and then; scrape it off and continue on your way.

Find what you like and go get it! There is absolutely no right or wrong way to do this thing. Steve

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same here not much luck in meeting with tame couples. still hoping to meet couples that would be happy within our limits.

Odem TX
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Doc & Janine... We operate at your level with couples who have that limit. And we also operate at soft-swap which is everything short of full-swap.

We have been with couples who are full swap and they respected our limits.

We see that you are from TN... but half the F'ing way to California!!!! from SC!!!

Take your time. Log in a few experiences. We do understand that at least at first, that may be more comfortable if those experineces are out of town. But understand, even though you may be more fun than live porn, most the folks here want to fuck somebody else and watch their mate get it too.

Hell, drive for 8 hours and come see us!.

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I think the problem you are having is because you have no certs and don't want to go to clubs. I know we don't open our pics to anyone unless they have certs from people we know. Our reasons are the same as yours. Clubs are your best bet to at least meet people. I would say for the most part if they are there it is for the same reasons you are and they don't want to be outed any more than you do.

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We have met many couples who just like to watch and be watched. When we started that is what we were looking for. In our experience a on-premise lifestyle club is the prefect place to find this.

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Its against this sites policy to discuss other sites using names or links.

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